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katyjay	Dec 20 2006, 07:48 PM Post #16
Maestro Group: Members Posts: 15848 Joined: 13-December 03 From: North Surrey Member No.: 275	QUOTE(katyjay @ Dec 20 2006, 07:41 PM) Chris, convince Soph that this is a good place to stay once you chill out a bit and learn to ignore the grumpy people. Actually, I'll modify this a bit and say ignore the sort of people who pick to bits everything you say with the express intention of causing irritation.

mrbouffant	Dec 20 2006, 07:49 PM Post #17
Unregistered	QUOTE(katyjay @ Dec 20 2006, 07:48 PM) QUOTE(katyjay @ Dec 20 2006, 07:41 PM) Chris, convince Soph that this is a good place to stay once you chill out a bit and learn to ignore the grumpy people. Actually, I'll modify this a bit and say ignore the sort of people who pick to bits everything you say with the express intention of causing irritation. IT'S A JOKE The intention was to make you chuckle. Obviously we are as far apart on this as Soph and Ben are at resolving their differences...

Soph15	Dec 20 2006, 07:50 PM Post #18
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	Ben if you read this, please??

ben_walker446	Dec 20 2006, 07:54 PM Post #19
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 4860 Joined: 10-December 05 From: Stoke-on-trent Member No.: 5524	Ahhh another thread to do with me. Will there be anymore soon?

katyjay	Dec 20 2006, 07:54 PM Post #20
Maestro Group: Members Posts: 15848 Joined: 13-December 03 From: North Surrey Member No.: 275	QUOTE(mrbouffant @ Dec 20 2006, 07:49 PM) QUOTE(katyjay @ Dec 20 2006, 07:48 PM) QUOTE(katyjay @ Dec 20 2006, 07:41 PM) Chris, convince Soph that this is a good place to stay once you chill out a bit and learn to ignore the grumpy people. Actually, I'll modify this a bit and say ignore the sort of people who pick to bits everything you say with the express intention of causing irritation. IT'S A JOKE The intention was to make you chuckle. Obviously we are as far apart on this as Soph and Ben are at resolving their differences... I'm awfully sorry, MrB but I don't find humour in people deliberately seeking to embarrass, wrong-foot, demean, humiliate or irritate others.

Soph15	Dec 20 2006, 07:56 PM Post #21
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	QUOTE(ben_walker446 @ Dec 20 2006, 07:54 PM) Ahhh another thread to do with me. Will there be anymore soon? Ok I get the message. I am going to go now (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)

Car Expert	Dec 20 2006, 07:57 PM Post #22
Maestro Group: Members Posts: 30695 Joined: 15-May 05 From: UK - rural North Norfolk\East Anglia. Lincoln 104 miles. Ipswich 66 miles. Oxford 193 miles. Lewes 199 miles. Member No.: 3680	QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 20 2006, 07:56 PM) QUOTE(ben_walker446 @ Dec 20 2006, 07:54 PM) Ahhh another thread to do with me. Will there be anymore soon? Ok I get the message. I am going to go now (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) Not forever I hope...(IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) Car Expert

sbhoa	Dec 20 2006, 07:57 PM Post #23
Maestro Group: Members Posts: 18910 Joined: 31-October 03 From: Tameside Member No.: 24	QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 20 2006, 07:56 PM) QUOTE(ben_walker446 @ Dec 20 2006, 07:54 PM) Ahhh another thread to do with me. Will there be anymore soon? Ok I get the message. I am going to go now (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) AAAAGGGHHHHH! Soph, please go and enjoy the party. Most people want you there.

Soph15	Dec 20 2006, 07:58 PM Post #24
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	QUOTE(sbhoa @ Dec 20 2006, 07:57 PM) QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 20 2006, 07:56 PM) QUOTE(ben_walker446 @ Dec 20 2006, 07:54 PM) Ahhh another thread to do with me. Will there be anymore soon? Ok I get the message. I am going to go now (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) AAAAGGGHHHHH! Soph, please go and enjoy the party. Most people want you there. Ben has made his point, I am leaving for his sake of not anyone elses.

barry-clari	Dec 20 2006, 07:59 PM Post #25
Maestro Group: Members Posts: 40564 Joined: 10-January 06 From: South East London Member No.: 5804	QUOTE(sbhoa @ Dec 20 2006, 07:57 PM) Soph, please go and enjoy the party. Most people want you there. I'd rephrase 'most' as 'pretty much all' (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) I do hope that post above doesn't refer to a permanent departure Soph. For now, talk to other people on the forum.

Soph15	Dec 20 2006, 08:11 PM Post #26
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	QUOTE(barry-clari @ Dec 20 2006, 07:59 PM) QUOTE(sbhoa @ Dec 20 2006, 07:57 PM) Soph, please go and enjoy the party. Most people want you there. I'd rephrase 'most' as 'pretty much all' (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) I do hope that post above doesn't refer to a permanent departure Soph. For now, talk to other people on the forum. I think it will be a permanent departure, I dont want Ben hating me anymore, and he cant if i am not there (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif) QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 20 2006, 08:04 PM) QUOTE(barry-clari @ Dec 20 2006, 07:59 PM) QUOTE(sbhoa @ Dec 20 2006, 07:57 PM) Soph, please go and enjoy the party. Most people want you there. I'd rephrase 'most' as 'pretty much all' (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) I do hope that post above doesn't refer to a permanent departure Soph. For now, talk to other people on the forum. I think it will be a permanent departure, I dont want Ben hating me anymore, and he cant if i am not there (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) I hope you enjoy the party. Ben why wont you listen to me? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)

YetAnotherPianist	Dec 20 2006, 08:18 PM Post #27
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6692 Joined: 18-January 05 From: Sofa; occasionally, piano stool Member No.: 2978	Soph15, from your posts I've always thought you were a little prone to becoming upset by your friends - not just Ben. Try to focus on the positive: it appears from the other posts in this thread that you are liked, so although you and Ben might have some issues, the forums as a whole don't hate you (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif).

Soph15	Dec 20 2006, 08:22 PM Post #28
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	QUOTE(YetAnotherPianist @ Dec 20 2006, 08:18 PM) Soph15, from your posts I've always thought you were a little prone to becoming upset by your friends - not just Ben. Try to focus on the positive: it appears from the other posts in this thread that you are liked, so although you and Ben might have some issues, the forums as a whole don't hate you (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif). Thanks, it probably has something to do with my confidence which I dont have. I just want Ben to realise that I want to sort things out with him. When I am on the forums, people dont like it if me and Ben start to get at each other and neither do I. Ben has made it clear what he thinks and I think I should leave. I am sorry everyone if I have caused any trounle on here.

YetAnotherPianist	Dec 20 2006, 08:29 PM Post #29
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6692 Joined: 18-January 05 From: Sofa; occasionally, piano stool Member No.: 2978	I hadn't actually noticed you fighting with Ben, I only dip in and out and honestly hadn't seen a single incident of it. Self confidence takes time, when I was your age I had very little of it, and was nervous talking to people I didn't know; let alone giving a lecture to a room full of university students. Things do get easier as one gets older though, and although that doesn't make things better for you right now, hang in there (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif). I don't think leaving the forums is the best thing to do here - perhaps if Ben and yourself both agree to 'Ignore User' each other, you could stay around for a bit and see if you're any happier? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

Soph15	Dec 20 2006, 08:31 PM Post #30
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	QUOTE(YetAnotherPianist @ Dec 20 2006, 08:29 PM) I hadn't actually noticed you fighting with Ben, I only dip in and out and honestly hadn't seen a single incident of it. Self confidence takes time, when I was your age I had very little of it, and was nervous talking to people I didn't know; let alone giving a lecture to a room full of university students. Things do get easier as one gets older though, and although that doesn't make things better for you right now, hang in there (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif). I don't think leaving the forums is the best thing to do here - perhaps if Ben and yourself both agree to 'Ignore User' each other, you could stay around for a bit and see if you're any happier? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) The thing is i WANT to sort things with Ben and it is making me unhappy that he is ignoring me.

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