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Soph15	Dec 22 2006, 03:15 PM Post #61
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	Thanks everyone, what I wanted was to at least talk to Ben and get it at least spoken about before christmas, obviously that isnt going to happen.

jod	Dec 22 2006, 04:02 PM Post #62
Maestro Group: Banned Posts: 9899 Joined: 14-January 05 From: Burwell, Cambridgeshire Member No.: 2939	QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 22 2006, 03:15 PM) Thanks everyone, what I wanted was to at least talk to Ben and get it at least spoken about before christmas, obviously that isnt going to happen. I know where you're coming from here (speaking as someone whose been in the same position). It would be nice, but if it ain't going to happen, it ain't going to happen. Have a good Christmas Sophie.

Soph15	Dec 22 2006, 04:06 PM Post #63
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	QUOTE(jod @ Dec 22 2006, 04:02 PM) QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 22 2006, 03:15 PM) Thanks everyone, what I wanted was to at least talk to Ben and get it at least spoken about before christmas, obviously that isnt going to happen. I know where you're coming from here (speaking as someone whose been in the same position). It would be nice, but if it ain't going to happen, it ain't going to happen. Have a good Christmas Sophie. I have spoken to Ben now, after he got someone else to have a go at me. I have been told what is thought of me. I hope you have a nice christmas to.

chocolatedog	Dec 22 2006, 05:41 PM Post #64
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 3861 Joined: 4-June 05 Member No.: 3798	QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 22 2006, 04:06 PM) QUOTE(jod @ Dec 22 2006, 04:02 PM) QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 22 2006, 03:15 PM) Thanks everyone, what I wanted was to at least talk to Ben and get it at least spoken about before christmas, obviously that isnt going to happen. I know where you're coming from here (speaking as someone whose been in the same position). It would be nice, but if it ain't going to happen, it ain't going to happen. Have a good Christmas Sophie. I have spoken to Ben now, after he got someone else to have a go at me. I have been told what is thought of me. I hope you have a nice christmas to. Don't take what he said seriously........he's obviously just out to make trouble - did you report him? or was it on msn? You can block him on msn then you won't get any more trouble from him.........

Dulciana	Dec 22 2006, 06:27 PM Post #65
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 5718 Joined: 11-January 06 Member No.: 5811	Maybe Ben would prefer not to post his thoughts and feelings on the internet for all to see. If this is the case, I think it's unfair of us all to make judgements on him in the absence of his comments.

hellokitty	Dec 22 2006, 07:01 PM Post #66
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 2738 Joined: 6-July 04 From: Jersey, Channel Islands Member No.: 1645	QUOTE(Dulciana @ Dec 22 2006, 06:27 PM) Maybe Ben would prefer not to post his thoughts and feelings on the internet for all to see. If this is the case, I think it's unfair of us all to make judgements on him in the absence of his comments. I agree. Is it really fair for any of us to make judgement on what we don't really know about? HK x

Soph15	Dec 22 2006, 07:30 PM Post #67
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	Me and Ben have spoken now and we have both agreed on what we are going to do. I am sorry about the post I made earlier Ben and came here to correct it. At the time I was upset but now we have spoken and resolved that issue. I am sorry about all of that.

mrbouffant	Dec 22 2006, 07:39 PM Post #68
Unregistered	QUOTE(hellokitty @ Dec 22 2006, 07:01 PM) Is it really fair for any of us to make judgement on what we don't really know about? Why not? Without that, this forum would be a fraction of the size it is!

Soph15	Dec 22 2006, 08:06 PM Post #69
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	QUOTE(hellokitty @ Dec 22 2006, 07:01 PM) QUOTE(Dulciana @ Dec 22 2006, 06:27 PM) Maybe Ben would prefer not to post his thoughts and feelings on the internet for all to see. If this is the case, I think it's unfair of us all to make judgements on him in the absence of his comments. I agree. Is it really fair for any of us to make judgement on what we don't really know about? HK x I asked no one to make a judgement of Ben, I wanted peoples judgement on me.

Choddy	Dec 22 2006, 08:13 PM Post #70
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 3454 Joined: 3-January 05 From: Southport Member No.: 2852	QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 22 2006, 08:06 PM) QUOTE(hellokitty @ Dec 22 2006, 07:01 PM) QUOTE(Dulciana @ Dec 22 2006, 06:27 PM) Maybe Ben would prefer not to post his thoughts and feelings on the internet for all to see. If this is the case, I think it's unfair of us all to make judgements on him in the absence of his comments. I agree. Is it really fair for any of us to make judgement on what we don't really know about? HK x I asked no one to make a judgement of Ben, I wanted peoples judgement on me. If everyone wanted to talk about themselves, wouldn't the world being a boring place?? Can't you just leave this alone? Otherwise people's judgements of you may change. You don't really have a right to go spreading all yours and Ben's arguments and issues all over a forum without his consent so I think you should apologise and try and get this thread deleted.

Soph15	Dec 22 2006, 08:18 PM Post #71
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 6074 Joined: 8-October 06 From: somewhere only I know!! Member No.: 7906	QUOTE(Choddy @ Dec 22 2006, 08:13 PM) QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 22 2006, 08:06 PM) QUOTE(hellokitty @ Dec 22 2006, 07:01 PM) QUOTE(Dulciana @ Dec 22 2006, 06:27 PM) Maybe Ben would prefer not to post his thoughts and feelings on the internet for all to see. If this is the case, I think it's unfair of us all to make judgements on him in the absence of his comments. I agree. Is it really fair for any of us to make judgement on what we don't really know about? HK x I asked no one to make a judgement of Ben, I wanted peoples judgement on me. If everyone wanted to talk about themselves, wouldn't the world being a boring place?? Can't you just leave this alone? Otherwise people's judgements of you may change. You don't really have a right to go spreading all yours and Ben's arguments and issues all over a forum without his consent so I think you should apologise and try and get this thread deleted. I know what is thought of me now anyway, i came to correct what I said earlier which I have done so. I have apologised in an earlier post, and dont worry i wont be around here much anyway.

Noodelz	Dec 22 2006, 09:21 PM Post #72
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 4380 Joined: 30-June 05 From: London Member No.: 4025	QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 22 2006, 08:18 PM) QUOTE(Choddy @ Dec 22 2006, 08:13 PM) QUOTE(Soph15 @ Dec 22 2006, 08:06 PM) QUOTE(hellokitty @ Dec 22 2006, 07:01 PM) QUOTE(Dulciana @ Dec 22 2006, 06:27 PM) Maybe Ben would prefer not to post his thoughts and feelings on the internet for all to see. If this is the case, I think it's unfair of us all to make judgements on him in the absence of his comments. I agree. Is it really fair for any of us to make judgement on what we don't really know about? HK x I asked no one to make a judgement of Ben, I wanted peoples judgement on me. If everyone wanted to talk about themselves, wouldn't the world being a boring place?? Can't you just leave this alone? Otherwise people's judgements of you may change. You don't really have a right to go spreading all yours and Ben's arguments and issues all over a forum without his consent so I think you should apologise and try and get this thread deleted. I know what is thought of me now anyway, i came to correct what I said earlier which I have done so. I have apologised in an earlier post, and dont worry i wont be around here much anyway. I think that this is Choddy's and only Choddy's viewpoint on things. The previous posts are full of positive words wanting you to stay, why don't you consider those as well? Perhaps he does have a point, although I would be very sad to see you leave. By the way, you probably haven't noticed/worked out/bothered to work out that little proverb about that stone in a stream because if you did, you probably wouldn't be so worked up right now. I know it sounds silly but try to understand the meaning of it.

Dulciana	Dec 23 2006, 09:54 AM Post #73
Virtuoso Group: Members Posts: 5718 Joined: 11-January 06 Member No.: 5811	QUOTE(mrbouffant @ Dec 22 2006, 07:39 PM) QUOTE(hellokitty @ Dec 22 2006, 07:01 PM) Is it really fair for any of us to make judgement on what we don't really know about? Why not? Without that, this forum would be a fraction of the size it is! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) Rock on Mrb! We love you!

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