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| a mum |
May 4 2011, 08:35 PM
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Sorry to post this in the music forum but I wondered if any of you forumites might have some advice for us.
Our 3 year old tabby is now missing for 2 days. He's white with black/grey markings. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) He has never been away for so long from home. We last saw him at 5 pm on Monday evening when he went out after having his food. Usually he comes back late at night or first thing next morning but he didn't. I went to work thinking that he's probably just around but then when he hadn't been back all day, we started to get a little worried. We have combed the entire neighbourhood, calling out for him and looked in the bushes. We have informed the vets, put up posters and asked around with the neighbours. I have also posted his details on a couple of missing animal websites. I have also called the local council in case he has been run over and also the RSPCA. He's often seen out with another cat from the neighbourhood, but I have gone and checked and this cat is still at home and he has been hanging around our house. We have just been out again looking for him. Usually he just comes when we call out for him but he's nowhere to be seen. Not sure what has happened to him, and this is so worrying. We're all just devastated. It's surprising how hard this has hit us. There is this very intense feeling of loss and helplessness. Our daughter is extremely attached to him and she boards during the week, so we haven't even told her yet as we are worried how she would react and cope without us at school. Any advice/ suggestions? Is there still any hope for us considering it has been more than 48 hours now? This is just not his usual pattern. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif) |
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| scotliz |
May 5 2011, 04:23 AM
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Our cats have also gone missing a couple of times. Our youngest one would hide in the garden if he had been in a fight and even though we checked behind all the bushes we wouldn't see him so it may be worth checking your garden a few times.
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| a mum |
May 5 2011, 05:49 AM
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No news on Harry yet. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
We went out late last night at midnight around the neighbourhood with a flashlight calling out for him. No sign of him anywhere. Kept hoping that I'll hear a meow or that he'll emerge out of the bushes. Went out again early this morning with the dog in the opposite direction. He used to just come out of the bushes and follow us around whenever we walked the dog. No idea where he could be. I also put some worn clothes around the garden last night but perhaps they weren't smelly enough! Also put out food for him and his bed outside but there hasn't been any sign of him at all. Trying very hard to stay hopeful... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif) |
a mum Our beloved cat is missing May 4 2011, 08:35 PM
Geranium Many years back something similar happened to our ... May 4 2011, 08:52 PM
AroundAgain Hi
So sorry to hear about your cat's disappea... May 4 2011, 09:07 PM
a mum Thank you. It's encouraging to hear that some ... May 4 2011, 09:20 PM
horseplay I really feel for you and know exactly what you ar... May 4 2011, 09:00 PM
MDSS First of all, don't panic! I've owned ... May 4 2011, 09:00 PM
SueHM We?ve had cats go missing for days as well, and th... May 4 2011, 09:19 PM
corenfa My old cat from when I was growing up did roam and... May 4 2011, 09:23 PM
maggiemay Fingers crossed for you and for Harry! I know... May 4 2011, 09:54 PM
horseplay I really feel for you and know exactly what you ar... May 5 2011, 05:42 AM
lottie Have you knocked on your neighbour's doors.. e... May 5 2011, 06:26 AM
tonedeafmum Very sorry to hear about Harry. Jenni (Cat 1) went... May 5 2011, 07:24 AM
icklechick Don't give up hope!
I had a ginger Tom wh... May 5 2011, 07:41 AM
Maizie Our cat has never gone missing though she's a ... May 5 2011, 07:51 AM
scotliz Just a thought - have you checked cupboards, wardr... May 5 2011, 08:46 AM
Aquarelle I am sending you a big hug because I have been thr... May 5 2011, 09:35 AM
a mum This is so hard, isn't it? I go from being com... May 5 2011, 12:30 PM
Crotchetymum Fingers crossed that he returns safely, and a hug ... May 5 2011, 01:25 PM
staccato Don't give up hope - my childhood cat went mis... May 5 2011, 01:54 PM
Claudia's Mum So sorry to hear about Harry going missing.
Our b... May 5 2011, 03:26 PM
jazzycat So sorry to hear that Harry is missing. Our neigh... May 5 2011, 04:09 PM
pianophrase Seems like you have done everything you possibly c... May 5 2011, 10:37 PM
a mum No sign yet.
I've contacted local animal res... May 6 2011, 10:23 AM
tonedeafmum
No sign yet.
I've contacted local animal re... May 6 2011, 11:01 AM
scotliz Sorry to hear Harry isn't back home yet. May 6 2011, 10:56 AM
jod Plato was missing for a fortnight, and just as I t... May 6 2011, 11:39 AM
katica
Plato was missing for a fortnight, and just as I ... May 7 2011, 06:28 PM
Tortellini I hope you get him back! We once got our cat b... May 6 2011, 03:34 PM
Hardying
Sorry to post this in the music forum but I wonde... May 7 2011, 06:26 PM
Dawnmc71 I keep hoping to see a message to say Harry's ... May 7 2011, 06:30 PM
maggiemay what she said xx May 7 2011, 07:30 PM
klavierkat Any news yet? I've just seen your thread and ... May 7 2011, 09:07 PM
Aquarelle Any news? I just thought I would pop back in to sa... May 8 2011, 02:18 PM
Halka
Any news? I just thought I would pop back in to s... May 8 2011, 02:49 PM
a mum Thank you all...but sadly no news yet. :(
There... May 8 2011, 08:58 PM
horseplay
Thank you all...but sadly no news yet. :(
Ther... May 9 2011, 06:37 AM
a mum Just thought I'd let you know the devastating ... May 10 2011, 12:10 PM
horseplay Oh, I am so sorry to hear your news, kept checking... May 10 2011, 04:43 PM
Chris H
Just thought I'd let you know the devastating... May 12 2011, 09:46 PM
barry-clari :( Very sorry to hear the news, a mum. My sympathi... May 10 2011, 12:11 PM
NigelC Dear A Mum,
Really sorry to hear your sad news.
... May 10 2011, 12:20 PM
muzikalbadger Very very sorry to hear this awful news... My thou... May 10 2011, 12:22 PM
maggiemay Oh I am so sorry. Like many others, I kept coming... May 10 2011, 12:27 PM
Czerny Sorry to hear this - very sad news. :( May 10 2011, 12:29 PM
Halka
Sorry to hear this - very sad news. :(
Me too. May 10 2011, 12:30 PM
Aquarelle I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. You must... May 10 2011, 12:39 PM
jod I'm so sorry to hear you news, but reasurred t... May 10 2011, 12:54 PM
fsharpminor How sad, sorry to hear the news. You should get an... May 10 2011, 12:57 PM
Cyrilla Very sorry to hear this, a mum. Aquarelle has sa... May 10 2011, 01:09 PM
Dawnmc71
Harry will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Brid... May 10 2011, 01:20 PM
AroundAgain Oh, so sorry. Yes, you will be feeling so sad jus... May 10 2011, 01:23 PM
andante_in_c Very sad to hear the news. I've been hoping th... May 10 2011, 01:38 PM
tonedeafmum
Very sad to hear the news. I've been hoping t... May 10 2011, 01:48 PM
kerioboe :grouphug: May 10 2011, 02:36 PM
corenfa I'm really sorry to hear this. Cats will be ca... May 10 2011, 02:45 PM
Bagpuss My heart goes out to you. I have lost many dear m... May 10 2011, 06:00 PM
Tortellini Oh no, I'm so sorry. May 10 2011, 07:10 PM
klavierkat A mum I hope you feel supported by all the lovely ... May 10 2011, 09:34 PM
katica More :grouphug: , a mum! :( May 11 2011, 05:37 AM
jazzycat
More :grouphug: , a mum! :(
and from me. ... May 18 2011, 02:11 PM
Celeste Really sad to hear this news, a mum. :( Thinking o... May 11 2011, 10:31 AM
Crotchetymum So sorry to hear about Harry.
Cats do travel much... May 11 2011, 11:07 AM
lottie I'm so sorry to hear about your cat :( May 11 2011, 01:00 PM
stetenorve
I'm so sorry to hear about your cat :(
Me ... May 11 2011, 10:12 PM
scotliz I am so sorry to hear the sad news about Harry. May 12 2011, 06:31 PM
Car Expert That's shocking! :o Sorry to hear about th... May 12 2011, 09:56 PM
BerkshireMum Sending you lots of sympathy, a mum. :grouphug: ... May 12 2011, 10:07 PM
a mum Sorry for not writing this any sooner, but I have ... May 13 2011, 09:55 AM
corenfa
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We've talked about another cat but not su... May 13 2011, 10:53 AM
SueHM Oh dear, only just seen this. Sorry to hear of the... May 13 2011, 10:29 AM
Clarimoo :grouphug: May 13 2011, 10:49 AM
pianophrase So very sorry to hear your very sad news :(
Whe... May 13 2011, 07:25 PM
Hardying :grouphug:
So very sorry to hear your very sad ne... May 15 2011, 01:02 PM
NigelC
We've talked about another cat but not sure ... May 19 2011, 12:21 PM
a mum
We've talked about another cat but not sure... May 19 2011, 03:23 PM
Hardying
[quote name='NigelC' post='1059480' date='May 19 ... May 19 2011, 04:30 PM
a mum That is a lovely poem, Hardying. Sad but lovely.
... May 19 2011, 04:38 PM
Colin4May My cat, Sparky is very dear to me and my kids, and... May 20 2011, 08:52 AM
Chris H What a lovely poem, thank you for taking the time ... May 20 2011, 09:57 AM
Auricula7 I am so sorry to hear about Harry. It's really... May 20 2011, 06:07 PM![]() ![]() |
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