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> Our beloved cat is missing, Any advice?
a mum
post May 4 2011, 08:35 PM
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Sorry to post this in the music forum but I wondered if any of you forumites might have some advice for us.

Our 3 year old tabby is now missing for 2 days. He's white with black/grey markings. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)

He has never been away for so long from home. We last saw him at 5 pm on Monday evening when he went out after having his food. Usually he comes back late at night or first thing next morning but he didn't. I went to work thinking that he's probably just around but then when he hadn't been back all day, we started to get a little worried. We have combed the entire neighbourhood, calling out for him and looked in the bushes. We have informed the vets, put up posters and asked around with the neighbours. I have also posted his details on a couple of missing animal websites. I have also called the local council in case he has been run over and also the RSPCA. He's often seen out with another cat from the neighbourhood, but I have gone and checked and this cat is still at home and he has been hanging around our house.

We have just been out again looking for him. Usually he just comes when we call out for him but he's nowhere to be seen. Not sure what has happened to him, and this is so worrying.

We're all just devastated. It's surprising how hard this has hit us. There is this very intense feeling of loss and helplessness. Our daughter is extremely attached to him and she boards during the week, so we haven't even told her yet as we are worried how she would react and cope without us at school.

Any advice/ suggestions? Is there still any hope for us considering it has been more than 48 hours now? This is just not his usual pattern.

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Aquarelle
post May 8 2011, 02:18 PM
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Any news? I just thought I would pop back in to say that foxes are not necessarily a threat. Several posters have expressed worry about cats and foxes. When we lived in London we had foxes who visited the large shared garden of our block of flats and one evening a neighbour telelphoned to tell us to look out of the window. There on the lawn was a vixen and her three cubs playing with one of of our cats - who was at the time a large kitten. They were having a great time together.

My brother has foxes who visit his garden and his two cats have never been harmed. In any case cats can shine up a tree which a fox can't do.

Don't give up hope. Still thinking of you. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/grouphug.gif)
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post May 8 2011, 02:49 PM
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QUOTE(Aquarelle @ May 8 2011, 03:18 PM) *

Any news? I just thought I would pop back in to say that foxes are not necessarily a threat.


We live in a city area with a large fox population and the adult cats and foxes seem to leave each other alone. (Interestingly our pet rabbit sees off the cats, but has had a few close shaves with the foxes....)

I'm watching this thread too, hoping for good news. Our next door neighbour's cats often visit us (when not scared off by the rabbit..) and the young male went missing for a few days recently, but came back safe and sound, so fingers crossed Harry will be back soon too.
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post May 8 2011, 08:58 PM
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Thank you all...but sadly no news yet. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)

There was a possible sighting yesterday at a farm 3 miles away and we've visited it at night and at 5 am this morning, but it seems like it was a cat that lives nearby rather than Harry. We've been leaving some food there and it's been eaten up but it could be any of the cats from the area. There are quite a few around there. We just need a confirmed sighting to be able to narrow down the area and/or know that he's still alive and well.

Told our daughter last night and it has hit her very very hard. She's trying to be brave and optimistic and so are we...
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QUOTE(a mum @ May 8 2011, 09:58 PM) *

Thank you all...but sadly no news yet. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)

There was a possible sighting yesterday at a farm 3 miles away and we've visited it at night and at 5 am this morning, but it seems like it was a cat that lives nearby rather than Harry. We've been leaving some food there and it's been eaten up but it could be any of the cats from the area. There are quite a few around there. We just need a confirmed sighting to be able to narrow down the area and/or know that he's still alive and well.

Told our daughter last night and it has hit her very very hard. She's trying to be brave and optimistic and so are we...


Sorry to hear Harry is not home yet, I keep checking back here hoping for the good news message. Keep optimistic that you will have him back with you, I know that the worst thing is not knowing where he is. Hugs to your daughter, I remember telling mine and it was horrible. Oh, and keep putting the smelly clothing out in the garden, and someone also suggested dust from the hoover!
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a mum   Our beloved cat is missing   May 4 2011, 08:35 PM
Geranium   Many years back something similar happened to our ...   May 4 2011, 08:52 PM
AroundAgain   Hi So sorry to hear about your cat's disappea...   May 4 2011, 09:07 PM
a mum   Thank you. It's encouraging to hear that some ...   May 4 2011, 09:20 PM
horseplay   I really feel for you and know exactly what you ar...   May 4 2011, 09:00 PM
MDSS   First of all, don't panic! I've owned ...   May 4 2011, 09:00 PM
SueHM   We?ve had cats go missing for days as well, and th...   May 4 2011, 09:19 PM
corenfa   My old cat from when I was growing up did roam and...   May 4 2011, 09:23 PM
maggiemay   Fingers crossed for you and for Harry! I know...   May 4 2011, 09:54 PM
scotliz   Our cats have also gone missing a couple of times....   May 5 2011, 04:23 AM
a mum   No news on Harry yet. :( We went out late last ...   May 5 2011, 05:49 AM
horseplay   I really feel for you and know exactly what you ar...   May 5 2011, 05:42 AM
lottie   Have you knocked on your neighbour's doors.. e...   May 5 2011, 06:26 AM
tonedeafmum   Very sorry to hear about Harry. Jenni (Cat 1) went...   May 5 2011, 07:24 AM
icklechick   Don't give up hope! I had a ginger Tom wh...   May 5 2011, 07:41 AM
Maizie   Our cat has never gone missing though she's a ...   May 5 2011, 07:51 AM
scotliz   Just a thought - have you checked cupboards, wardr...   May 5 2011, 08:46 AM
Aquarelle   I am sending you a big hug because I have been thr...   May 5 2011, 09:35 AM
a mum   This is so hard, isn't it? I go from being com...   May 5 2011, 12:30 PM
Crotchetymum   Fingers crossed that he returns safely, and a hug ...   May 5 2011, 01:25 PM
staccato   Don't give up hope - my childhood cat went mis...   May 5 2011, 01:54 PM
Claudia's Mum   So sorry to hear about Harry going missing. Our b...   May 5 2011, 03:26 PM
jazzycat   So sorry to hear that Harry is missing. Our neigh...   May 5 2011, 04:09 PM
pianophrase   Seems like you have done everything you possibly c...   May 5 2011, 10:37 PM
a mum   No sign yet. I've contacted local animal res...   May 6 2011, 10:23 AM
tonedeafmum   No sign yet. I've contacted local animal re...   May 6 2011, 11:01 AM
scotliz   Sorry to hear Harry isn't back home yet.   May 6 2011, 10:56 AM
jod   Plato was missing for a fortnight, and just as I t...   May 6 2011, 11:39 AM
katica   Plato was missing for a fortnight, and just as I ...   May 7 2011, 06:28 PM
Tortellini   I hope you get him back! We once got our cat b...   May 6 2011, 03:34 PM
Hardying   Sorry to post this in the music forum but I wonde...   May 7 2011, 06:26 PM
Dawnmc71   I keep hoping to see a message to say Harry's ...   May 7 2011, 06:30 PM
maggiemay   what she said xx   May 7 2011, 07:30 PM
klavierkat   Any news yet? I've just seen your thread and ...   May 7 2011, 09:07 PM
Aquarelle   Any news? I just thought I would pop back in to sa...   May 8 2011, 02:18 PM
Halka   Any news? I just thought I would pop back in to s...   May 8 2011, 02:49 PM
a mum   Thank you all...but sadly no news yet. :( There...   May 8 2011, 08:58 PM
horseplay   Thank you all...but sadly no news yet. :( Ther...   May 9 2011, 06:37 AM
a mum   Just thought I'd let you know the devastating ...   May 10 2011, 12:10 PM
horseplay   Oh, I am so sorry to hear your news, kept checking...   May 10 2011, 04:43 PM
Chris H   Just thought I'd let you know the devastating...   May 12 2011, 09:46 PM
barry-clari   :( Very sorry to hear the news, a mum. My sympathi...   May 10 2011, 12:11 PM
NigelC   Dear A Mum, Really sorry to hear your sad news. ...   May 10 2011, 12:20 PM
muzikalbadger   Very very sorry to hear this awful news... My thou...   May 10 2011, 12:22 PM
maggiemay   Oh I am so sorry. Like many others, I kept coming...   May 10 2011, 12:27 PM
Czerny   Sorry to hear this - very sad news. :(   May 10 2011, 12:29 PM
Halka   Sorry to hear this - very sad news. :( Me too.   May 10 2011, 12:30 PM
Aquarelle   I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. You must...   May 10 2011, 12:39 PM
jod   I'm so sorry to hear you news, but reasurred t...   May 10 2011, 12:54 PM
fsharpminor   How sad, sorry to hear the news. You should get an...   May 10 2011, 12:57 PM
Cyrilla   Very sorry to hear this, a mum. Aquarelle has sa...   May 10 2011, 01:09 PM
Dawnmc71   Harry will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Brid...   May 10 2011, 01:20 PM
AroundAgain   Oh, so sorry. Yes, you will be feeling so sad jus...   May 10 2011, 01:23 PM
andante_in_c   Very sad to hear the news. I've been hoping th...   May 10 2011, 01:38 PM
tonedeafmum   Very sad to hear the news. I've been hoping t...   May 10 2011, 01:48 PM
kerioboe   :grouphug:   May 10 2011, 02:36 PM
corenfa   I'm really sorry to hear this. Cats will be ca...   May 10 2011, 02:45 PM
Bagpuss   My heart goes out to you. I have lost many dear m...   May 10 2011, 06:00 PM
Tortellini   Oh no, I'm so sorry.   May 10 2011, 07:10 PM
klavierkat   A mum I hope you feel supported by all the lovely ...   May 10 2011, 09:34 PM
katica   More :grouphug: , a mum! :(   May 11 2011, 05:37 AM
jazzycat   More :grouphug: , a mum! :( and from me. ...   May 18 2011, 02:11 PM
Celeste   Really sad to hear this news, a mum. :( Thinking o...   May 11 2011, 10:31 AM
Crotchetymum   So sorry to hear about Harry. Cats do travel much...   May 11 2011, 11:07 AM
lottie   I'm so sorry to hear about your cat :(   May 11 2011, 01:00 PM
stetenorve   I'm so sorry to hear about your cat :( Me ...   May 11 2011, 10:12 PM
scotliz   I am so sorry to hear the sad news about Harry.   May 12 2011, 06:31 PM
Car Expert   That's shocking! :o Sorry to hear about th...   May 12 2011, 09:56 PM
BerkshireMum   Sending you lots of sympathy, a mum. :grouphug: ...   May 12 2011, 10:07 PM
a mum   Sorry for not writing this any sooner, but I have ...   May 13 2011, 09:55 AM
corenfa   ... We've talked about another cat but not su...   May 13 2011, 10:53 AM
SueHM   Oh dear, only just seen this. Sorry to hear of the...   May 13 2011, 10:29 AM
Clarimoo   :grouphug:   May 13 2011, 10:49 AM
pianophrase   So very sorry to hear your very sad news :( Whe...   May 13 2011, 07:25 PM
Hardying   :grouphug: So very sorry to hear your very sad ne...   May 15 2011, 01:02 PM
NigelC   We've talked about another cat but not sure ...   May 19 2011, 12:21 PM
a mum   We've talked about another cat but not sure...   May 19 2011, 03:23 PM
Hardying   [quote name='NigelC' post='1059480' date='May 19 ...   May 19 2011, 04:30 PM
a mum   That is a lovely poem, Hardying. Sad but lovely. ...   May 19 2011, 04:38 PM
Colin4May   My cat, Sparky is very dear to me and my kids, and...   May 20 2011, 08:52 AM
Chris H   What a lovely poem, thank you for taking the time ...   May 20 2011, 09:57 AM
Auricula7   I am so sorry to hear about Harry. It's really...   May 20 2011, 06:07 PM

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