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> Bad Feeling
Gertrude
post Feb 28 2012, 10:19 PM
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Some days I feel like I want to quit playing and that my life will be a lot less complicated without the hard work in trying to make the time for practice.

How did others get around this?
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Yoshifumu
post Mar 4 2012, 05:41 PM
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I hit a pretty hard dip last year, a year after I started playing. Not having a teacher I had pretty much no idea what to do and came pretty close to giving up. Instead I booked myself into an ABRSM grade 2 exam to motivate myself and give me an aim (the main problem was that I had reached all the long-term goals that I had set myself and didn't know what to do from then on).

That worked pretty well and since then I set myself the goal of grade 5, followed by 8, and then eventually I would hope for a dipABRSM.

I'm almost at 5 now and I'm still going pretty strong. I've had a few dips this year but I find having a piano always around helps, so that I can just every now and then sit down and play a little something, even if I haven't practiced regularly for a week or two.

Basically: having a long term goal and not pressurising myself into playing keeps me going relatively constantly.


Although I understand it's probably difficult to do this with a teacher.
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Gertrude   Bad Feeling   Feb 28 2012, 10:19 PM
TSax   I wish there was a way to stop this happening...   Feb 28 2012, 11:04 PM
Benjy   You have my sympathy, and I've often felt the ...   Feb 28 2012, 11:05 PM
corenfa   One of the following usually works for me 1. Play...   Feb 28 2012, 11:57 PM
Gertrude   3. Do it anyway - force myself to do it in the sa...   Feb 29 2012, 09:32 AM
BadStrad   One of the following usually works for me 1. Pla...   Feb 29 2012, 01:27 PM
gwyntdi-enw   Corenfa has exactly the right ideas. I think that...   Feb 29 2012, 09:35 AM
corenfa   ... We set targets for ourselves that we would n...   Feb 29 2012, 02:43 PM
Misterioso   Some days I feel like I want to quit playing and ...   Feb 29 2012, 03:03 PM
nicki_flute   I know the feeling all too well. Part of the pro...   Feb 29 2012, 06:07 PM
sbhoa   I know the feeling all too well. Part of the pr...   Feb 29 2012, 06:24 PM
nicki_flute   I know the feeling all too well. Part of the p...   Feb 29 2012, 09:28 PM
fluteabi   I know the feeling all too well. Part of the pr...   Mar 2 2012, 01:07 PM
Neil Quinn   I know the feeling all too well. Part of the pr...   Mar 9 2012, 09:11 PM
nicki_flute   I know the feeling all too well. Part of the p...   Mar 9 2012, 10:32 PM
JamesK   It exists in everything. Sometimes you may hate a ...   Mar 1 2012, 05:02 PM
Gertrude   It exists in everything. Sometimes you may hate a...   Mar 2 2012, 08:14 AM
Yoshifumu   I hit a pretty hard dip last year, a year after I ...   Mar 4 2012, 05:41 PM
nicki_flute   It exists in everything. Sometimes you may hate ...   Mar 4 2012, 06:29 PM

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