QUOTE(Impressionist @ Jan 30 2012, 07:23 PM)

I've a student who has been learning (initially through school) both keyboard and piano. The pupil sat her prep test last year and then gave up for a bit before joining me about 5 weeks or so ago. It seems she has managed to get through almost 3 years of tuition without actually reading music much at all and has learnt most of her pieces by ear.
Perhaps this is a good thing. She has been learning music ... not mechanical translation of symbols into finger movements, which is what a lot of classical pianists do. Instead of seeing it as a problem you could build on it, by branching out into harmonic theory, learning to create different accompaniments to a tune, learning to create "jazzy"sounds and so on
QUOTE(Impressionist @ Jan 30 2012, 07:23 PM)

I realise it's not uncommon, but I do need her understand and connect the dots on the page to what she plays. I've been working on using flashcards and timing games, writing her own music using rhythm cards and a limited range of notes, but it's not going in very well. And I can sense she really doesn't see the value in it.
I think you have pin-pointed the problem. We have notation because it is just too much work to work out complex pieces by ear, because classical compositions are meant to be played exactly as the composer intended, and because someone has to play each composition for the first time, so playing by ear is not always possible. WHen she finds a piece that she really wants to play, that might be the time that she has the motivation to learn to interpret notation. And then you'll probably find that she learns it very quickly indeed.
QUOTE(Impressionist @ Jan 30 2012, 07:23 PM)

Any advice on how to make it interesting enough?
It is not that it needs to be made interesting. It is interesting enough in its own right. What she needs is a good reason to make the effort.
QUOTE(Impressionist @ Jan 30 2012, 07:23 PM)

There are other issues as well that I have to combat like flat fingers and hyper-extensive joints, plus a complete lack of rhythm and pulse when playing, although she has a good sense of pitch when singing and can clap a steady pulse to recorded music. It's puzzling me and I don't think it is necessarily a case of bad teaching in the past, just perhaps a pupil who decides to do her own thing!
There are far worse sins in piano playing than flat fingers. I would not stress over it. Finger shape often improves of its own accord as the student matures physically and grows as a musician. As for lack of rhythm/pulse it is hard to believe that it is a "COMPLETE lack" . This is an excellent teaching/learning opportunity. There are all kinds of things you can do to develop the sense of pulse, and any good text on teaching will give you plenty of ideas.