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nicki_flute
Hope you got some sleep Chev! It will feel like Christmas soon, promise. Can I help you with any of the little things. Don't forget you're fab!
teoani
So early in the week, and I already have it bad...

Work confuses me. Last evening, I thought there was some kind of agreement, then this morning something else crops up to throw the whole equation out. This has happened for many months, and I always lose focus on what I should be doing.

I am just not so used to such chaotic situations, and have lost my temper (yes indeed!) in meetings that seem to go on without any resolution in sight. I thought my temper has improved over the years, but in the recent weeks, I have lost my cool at least once a week. This morning's meeting is another of those "mood explosions" that I have experienced.

I am so mad at myself for being so low on EQ sad.gif Sigh... the holidays are coming, and should be really a fun season, but I am behaving so poorly, I don't think I deserve any presents this year sad.gif
jacobpianofluteorgan
I've had a horrid cold for the past week and a half, all the way through me trying to play for the drama productions, which meant missing 4 days off school (thursday to tuesday), and then i had awful ear ache which turned out to be a nasty ear infection, so i've been to the hospital twice, and seen 3 doctors, and am now on a stupid amount of anti biotics, and they have me taking paracetamol and ibuprofen every 2 hours.
The anti biotics are fantastic! I have finally after 4 days had a night where i havent been waking up in the night because of the pain, and i'm getting better now, which is why im on the computer.

Because of this, i've had to miss 2 concerts, and let people down, and not sing for the carol service that was on sunday sad.gif

I also can't hear out of my right ear, and apparently wont get my hearing back fully for another 2 weeks, and my piano practise is suffering. I haven't been able to play for a week, and i cant hear what i'm playing now that i'm back playing!

My braces have also been hurting, but have finally stopped, but i cant eat properly, and my flute sounds awful, and i was asking my flute teacher whether we could just destroy my flute instead, because my tone is pathetic! He asked me to do tone practise every day, but i havent been able to do it for a week! ARGHH!

Jacob. sad.gif
nicki_flute
*hugs* Sounds nasty. Give yourself a bit of a break and concentrate on getting better smile.gif People will have realised that you have been ill and you haven't let anyone down.
BerkshireMum
Poor Jacob! thereThere.gif I was really hoping that after all the painful work on your teeth things might be looking up for you.

Some of the colds around are very nasty; I felt off it for over a fortnight with the one I had, and various people I know have had ear or chest infections following a cold. I do hope you'll feel a bit better over Christmas, and that you'll be able to play your flute properly again very soon.
ChevvyChev
*big virtual hugs for everyone feeling rubbish*
xxxxx
andante_in_c
Why is it, now that my offspring have grown up and spend Christmas Eve in bed, that the pets have gone doo-lally this morning? One cat has been chasing parcel bows around the house, with the dog chasing the cat and now the other cat is getting into the wrapping paper box. Aaaaaarrrrgggghhh!
lottie
I don't really want to "aaaaaaagggghhh" but just a gentle moan blush.gif

I'm not unhappy at all but since I came home from the hospital I have had no energy at all sad.gif barely enough to get through the day and in the evenings I am just exhausted... and people keep visiting and I just want to tell them I can't possibly make another cup of tea because I neeeeeeed to sleeeeepp.

I haven't written my Christmas cards yet.

We cancelled our house-guests because I'm too sore and tired (but it's ok, they've made wonderful alternative arrangements laugh.gif ) ( But the neighbours keep 'popping in' which is fine but I have no energy.. see above....)

I have no decorations up.

We have no Christmas tree.

We're having lunch tomorrow, just the two of us, on our knees in front of the telly after walking the dogs.

I didn't make a cake/make my cards/make my wrapping paper as I usually do.

I haven't played my violin for over a month.

biggrin.gif There! Now I've had a moan I feel better and I'm going to go and dig out some tinsel......... party1.gif rolleyes.gif (even if I just wear it because I don't have the energy to reach up to anything.... laugh.gif )
chocolatedog
AAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

After looking forward to Christmas with cd junior, he's got flu!!!!! So he's miserable and crying, sneezing and coughing, nose like a tap, and he doesn't want to eat. And I also have to coax him to drink........ Oh the s*dding timing of it all..... sad.gif mad.gif
sarah123
Aaargh!!

How am I meant to make mince pies when the jar of mince meat refuses to let go of its lid?!?!
nicki_flute
Poke it or shout at it or use an elastic band/tea towel to get a better grip.
sarah123
QUOTE(nicki_flute @ Dec 24 2008, 02:15 PM) *

Poke it or shout at it or use an elastic band/tea towel to get a better grip.


Having shouted at it, poked and prodded it with various pointy things, tried a tea towel, failed to find an elastic band, considered throwing it at a wall and generally doing everything I could think of, why did it suddenly come off with no effort at all?!? blink.gif It's the kind of thing that makes you feel really stupid lol
BerkshireMum
QUOTE(chocolatedog @ Dec 24 2008, 01:26 PM) *

AAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

After looking forward to Christmas with cd junior, he's got flu!!!!! So he's miserable and crying, sneezing and coughing, nose like a tap, and he doesn't want to eat. And I also have to coax him to drink........ Oh the s*dding timing of it all..... sad.gif mad.gif

So sorry to hear this, chocolatedog. sad.gif You'll just have to keep his presents until he's feeling a bit better - if he's young enough he won't even realise that Christmas has slipped by a few days.

I do hope it doesn't run through the rest of the family too, and that you can still get some fun out of Christmas.
nicki_flute
QUOTE(sarah123 @ Dec 24 2008, 04:33 PM) *

QUOTE(nicki_flute @ Dec 24 2008, 02:15 PM) *

Poke it or shout at it or use an elastic band/tea towel to get a better grip.


Having shouted at it, poked and prodded it with various pointy things, tried a tea towel, failed to find an elastic band, considered throwing it at a wall and generally doing everything I could think of, why did it suddenly come off with no effort at all?!? blink.gif It's the kind of thing that makes you feel really stupid lol

Ask someone else?
chocolatedog
QUOTE(nicki_flute @ Dec 25 2008, 08:39 AM) *

QUOTE(sarah123 @ Dec 24 2008, 04:33 PM) *

QUOTE(nicki_flute @ Dec 24 2008, 02:15 PM) *

Poke it or shout at it or use an elastic band/tea towel to get a better grip.


Having shouted at it, poked and prodded it with various pointy things, tried a tea towel, failed to find an elastic band, considered throwing it at a wall and generally doing everything I could think of, why did it suddenly come off with no effort at all?!? blink.gif It's the kind of thing that makes you feel really stupid lol

Ask someone else?



Run it under a hot tap for a minute - the heat expands the metal of the lid faster than it does glass so it should help to ease it enough for you to then take it off. Plus those rubber grip things from Lakeland are great for this kind of problem too. But be careful - trying to twist off a cap is how I damaged a tendon in my thumb!! (I was too lazy to go through the above steps........ rolleyes.gif )
lottie
QUOTE(lottie @ Dec 24 2008, 09:43 AM) *

I don't really want to "aaaaaaagggghhh" but just a gentle moan blush.gif

I'm not unhappy at all but since I came home from the hospital I have had no energy at all sad.gif barely enough to get through the day and in the evenings I am just exhausted... and people keep visiting and I just want to tell them I can't possibly make another cup of tea because I neeeeeeed to sleeeeepp.

I haven't written my Christmas cards yet.

We cancelled our house-guests because I'm too sore and tired (but it's ok, they've made wonderful alternative arrangements laugh.gif ) ( But the neighbours keep 'popping in' which is fine but I have no energy.. see above....)

I have no decorations up.

We have no Christmas tree.

We're having lunch tomorrow, just the two of us, on our knees in front of the telly after walking the dogs.

I didn't make a cake/make my cards/make my wrapping paper as I usually do.

I haven't played my violin for over a month.

biggrin.gif There! Now I've had a moan I feel better and I'm going to go and dig out some tinsel......... party1.gif rolleyes.gif (even if I just wear it because I don't have the energy to reach up to anything.... laugh.gif )



Actually had a really nice quiet day laugh.gif blush.gif
nicki_flute
Grrr.

Bah to essays to be written over Christmas

Bah to realising that I should have read more

Bah to my lack of motivation

Bah to my lack of argument for this essay
ChevvyChev
QUOTE(nicki_flute @ Dec 26 2008, 07:01 PM) *
Grrr.

Bah to essays to be written over Christmas

Bah to realising that I should have read more

Bah to my lack of motivation

Bah to my lack of argument for this essay


enjoy your holiday Nic Nic smile.gif you deserve some time to relax and chill smile.gif it'll all fall into place, I know it will smile.gif
katyjay
6pm on Saturday evening is never a good time to be phoned with the news that you don't have an organist for the 10.30 am Sunday morning service.....

It is even worse a time when it turns out that the hymns the minister's chosen aren't ones you've got recordings for, and that she would be grateful if you could record some accompaniments just in case.....

And worse still if you've got precisely half an hour before your family arrive to go out to dinner to celebrate a big anniversary.....


Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh
ChevvyChev
eeek!! that does sound stressful!! thereThere.gif
lucky045
My parents promised they'd pick me up from my friends' tomorrow after I've been to the cinema, and now they've reneged, so they can have a drink. I appreciate that they don't have to ferry me around, but they've left it too late for me to make alternative arrangements, and I was really looking forward to it. I can't afford a taxi and books for uni too, and the bus service (admittedly already very rare) from my village, has recently been cancelled for good.

I'll have to find a way though, I can't cancel, because another friend already has, and if I do, there won't be enough people to make it worthwhile to go. the friend that has, of course, is the one I never see because she cancels everything - I didn't organise this trip so I don't exactly feel slighted, I am a little irritated that she doesn't seem to ever want to hang around with us.
Misti
I can empathise, I'm in the same boat (you're not also in Cornwall, by any chance? dry.gif ) The bus service through my village has been halved since I went to Uni, and my parents are getting really fed up with ferrying me around.

I've just had to cancel on one lot of friends, A) because I can't get to the house where they're holding our Christmas-time get together party due to lack of transport, and B) because I've got other friends wanting to meet up the same night, that have been kind enough to offer to pick me up.

I feel so guilty, but also torn. And I wish I'd learnt to drive when I was 17.

sad.gif
heslop01
I HATE EXAMS, A LEVELS AND REVISION
lucky045
QUOTE(tamsin @ Dec 28 2008, 09:53 PM) *

I can empathise, I'm in the same boat (you're not also in Cornwall, by any chance? dry.gif ) The bus service through my village has been halved since I went to Uni, and my parents are getting really fed up with ferrying me around.

I've just had to cancel on one lot of friends, A) because I can't get to the house where they're holding our Christmas-time get together party due to lack of transport, and B) because I've got other friends wanting to meet up the same night, that have been kind enough to offer to pick me up.

I feel so guilty, but also torn. And I wish I'd learnt to drive when I was 17.

sad.gif


I know - if I'd passed my test, how much easier life would be! I'm useless at driving though. Not Cornwall nope I'm from East Yorkshire. My village is absolutely tiny - but they've got rid of ALL buses! I know at least four OAPs who can't drive and take the bus every time they go into town, and considering the only two shops in our village are a carpet shop and a fruit shop, I don't quite know what they'll do! At least I'm not in quite such a terrible position.
I think it'll be time to grovel and apologise tomorrow for being cheeky about it... I'll have to beg for a loan of taxi money I suppose.

Then, though, I'm supposed to be going out on New Years Eve - so that's more taxi money, and then I'm going to a play on Saturday... It's a hard life... rolleyes.gif

QUOTE(heslop01 @ Dec 28 2008, 11:40 PM) *

I HATE EXAMS, A LEVELS AND REVISION


You'll feel so good when they're over though!
Crotchetymum
Not so much aaaaggghh as eeeuuuugggghh!

When I went into my older son's room this morning there was that distinctive smell of oranges going off. From the heights of his raised bed (a high bed over a desk, not a vegetable bed, although come to think of it....), he suggested that his cousin might've left one in the room over Christmas - always blame the absentee - and then realised that his Christmas stocking was still at the end of his bed and that there had been a satsuma in it (at Christmas, he unwraps everything and then puts it back in the stocking to gloat over later). He kindly handed this stocking down to me, and I left it on the bedroom floor with a number of helpful suggestions as to what he could do with it. After he had left for school I found it at the top of the stairs, still full. I tipped everything out and, sure enough, there was a sort of felty-textured, greeny-blue squadge, firmly attached to the fabric of the stocking, with a faint residual whiff of satsuma underneath a heavy pong of rot. I've scraped it off and resisted the temptation to leave it on his pillow. The stocking is in the wash and I'm devising some form of revenge for when he gets home this afternoon ill.gif
Stephie
QUOTE(Crotchetymum @ Jan 6 2009, 10:26 AM) *

Not so much aaaaggghh as eeeuuuugggghh!

When I went into my older son's room this morning there was that distinctive smell of oranges going off. From the heights of his raised bed (a high bed over a desk, not a vegetable bed, although come to think of it....), he suggested that his cousin might've left one in the room over Christmas - always blame the absentee - and then realised that his Christmas stocking was still at the end of his bed and that there had been a satsuma in it (at Christmas, he unwraps everything and then puts it back in the stocking to gloat over later). He kindly handed this stocking down to me, and I left it on the bedroom floor with a number of helpful suggestions as to what he could do with it. After he had left for school I found it at the top of the stairs, still full. I tipped everything out and, sure enough, there was a sort of felty-textured, greeny-blue squadge, firmly attached to the fabric of the stocking, with a faint residual whiff of satsuma underneath a heavy pong of rot. I've scraped it off and resisted the temptation to leave it on his pillow. The stocking is in the wash and I'm devising some form of revenge for when he gets home this afternoon ill.gif

That is, very frankly, disgusting blink.gif Poor you, I really do pity you there... Mould is the most hideous form of dirt in the world ill.gif

My music teacher has just let me know that the festival I've entered my woodwind ensemble into is IN THE FIRST WEEK OF FEBRUARY, and I have nothing prepared for them!!! It's her fault - it really is, though, I'm not just laying the blame on someone else tongue.gif She told me before Christmas that the VP wanted the woodwind ensemble to preform in the end-of-term assembly, so I went and spent ages transposing Rudolph (which SHE wanted us to play) from four flutes to flute, oboe and two clarinets, not leaving enough time to transpose the oboe and clarinet parts in the Gershwin for the festival, and then she told me that the VP didn't want the woodwind ensemble anymore, and that he wanted a soloist from the school musical! mad.gif mad.gif mad.gif And now I don't know if I'll have time to transpose the Gershwin!!! I may very well resort to revenge too... ph34r.gif
lottie
AAAAAAERGGG

I was supposed to start a diet yesterday. (I didn't)

Now it's getting dark, the log fire is crackling, and I'm craving hot-chocolate with marshmallows (all sitting waiting in the cupboard to be eaten)

Do I, don't I?

sad.gif

wacko.gif
Maizie
QUOTE(lottie @ Jan 6 2009, 03:23 PM) *
Do I, don't I?
Of course you do! You can't actually start a diet properly until all tempting-food has been removed from the house, i.e. eaten. The sooner you eat them marshmallows, the sooner you'll be heading towards your target weight - and you'll be preventing yourself from any future slips biggrin.gif
sarah123
QUOTE(sarah123 @ Dec 18 2008, 08:47 PM) *

Aaaargh!

Sometimes I just don't get my dad!!

We have an old cat (I think she's about 14) who has basically stopped eating for the last week and has obviously lost weight and isn't herself. A similar thing happened to her a few years ago where she literally refused to eat for about a month and we only just managed to save her by force-feeding her. That time, someone took her to the vet, and they didn't come up with anything very helpful apart from a couple of tins of special cat food.

My dad won't accept the possibilty that it could be anything other than the same as last time this time, so won't take her to the vet as 'it's still in the early days so we can't tell yet and it will cause more harm than good anyway because she's very nervous of strangers!'

When I pointed out that it would be better to take her to the vets now rather than to have to pay the emergency call-out fee over christmas, he said that in his experience of 20 years of cat-ownership, they don't go downhill quickly and die slowly over the course of a year or so, so there's no urgent hurry blink.gif I was particularly surprised he took this approach because given that someone we knew was completely fine in the summer, went to the doctors because they thought they were feeling a bit dodgy and had died within about two weeks. I mentioned this to him, but all it did was get an explanation of how cats are different to people.

I can tell that my mum thinks she should go to the vets too, but she's mainly my dad's cat, so noone wants to go against him.

Just aaaaaargh!!! argh.gif


AAAaaargh still and even more! sad.gif

Someone did finally take the cat to the vet, and they couldn't find anything wrong with her (so my dad was right in that respect). She hasn't really eaten anything since christmas day and is now literally just skin and bones, can't really support her and we're having to force feed her a mixture of baby food and gloopy cat food stuff. She should get better in the end, as it worked the time this happened before, although I don't remember her being quite this weak. sad.gif

The stupid thing is that we realised she was going downhill relatively quickly, but my dad insisted on putting out plates and plates of different food to try and tempt her with for ages (she wouldn't take any of it!) because he didn't want to put her through force-feeding again, but all the time, she was just getting worse and worse, and if we'd started straight away, she wouldn't be in this state! mad.gif

Why do I have to have a relapsed anorexic cat and a dad who goes so out-of-his way to cause no harm to her that he ends up making her worse?!?! sad.gif

argh.gif
Holz Gedeckt
Hope your cat's better soon, Sarah. thereThere.gif
Cyrilla
QUOTE(Holz Gedeckt @ Jan 6 2009, 11:27 PM) *

Hope your cat's better soon, Sarah. thereThere.gif


agree.gif

thereThere.gif
barry-clari
QUOTE(Holz Gedeckt @ Jan 6 2009, 11:27 PM) *

Hope your cat's better soon, Sarah. thereThere.gif


So do I.
Crotchetymum
QUOTE(barry-clari @ Jan 7 2009, 09:13 AM) *

QUOTE(Holz Gedeckt @ Jan 6 2009, 11:27 PM) *

Hope your cat's better soon, Sarah. thereThere.gif


So do I.


Me too thereThere.gif
andante_in_c
QUOTE(Crotchetymum @ Jan 7 2009, 11:38 AM) *

QUOTE(barry-clari @ Jan 7 2009, 09:13 AM) *

QUOTE(Holz Gedeckt @ Jan 6 2009, 11:27 PM) *

Hope your cat's better soon, Sarah. thereThere.gif


So do I.


Me too thereThere.gif

And me. thereThere.gif
lottie
Hope your cat soon feels better sad.gif


ARggggggggggggg I've just tried to book a flight for an event in March and the flights are all fully booked. I looked them up in November and there were plenty.... WHY didn't I just book it then!!!!!!! GRRRRRRRRRRR

Think I might have to walk from Aberdeen to Birmingham now sad.gif mad.gif wacko.gif
Misti
How ridiculous are the trains? I quite like spending long amounts of time travelling by train, treating it as an adventure (you never do quite know where you'll end up and when!) and watching the world go by...

I'm ARGH... first of this years exams tomorrow. And its one of those nasty wishywashy writing ones (Management) where 'background reading' and 'general knowledge' are expected... so basically no-one has any idea what'll come up (the state of the UK economy seems like though) and its impossible to be well prepared.

GRRGRRGRR.
mwl1
QUOTE(tamsin @ Jan 12 2009, 10:23 PM) *
How ridiculous are the trains? I quite like spending long amounts of time travelling by train, treating it as an adventure (you never do quite know where you'll end up and when!) and watching the world go by...

I'm ARGH... first of this years exams tomorrow. And its one of those nasty wishywashy writing ones (Management) where 'background reading' and 'general knowledge' are expected... so basically no-one has any idea what'll come up (the state of the UK economy seems like though) and its impossible to be well prepared.

GRRGRRGRR.
The trains can be wonderful! You haven't always to have a deadline to meet though... sad.gif

Hope the exam business goes ok. thereThere.gif
Misti
It was okay, but I ran very short of time. Another 15 mins and I would have been happy, another 30 and I would have nailed it. As it is, I didn't really manage to fully answer the final essay questions (Describe how the financial state of the UK has changed in the last 6 months, covering unemployment, interest rates, inflation, balance of trade, GDP, FTSE100 (the list went on) and then suggest what should be done to improve the situation.

I didn't manage to get through everything on the list, and barely touched on what should be done... but then, I think an entire PhD thesis could be churned out on the topic, so hopefully I'll get a respectable mark or what I did get onto paper!

Environmental management next week, and Transport Phenomena 3 ohmy.gif .
lottie
QUOTE(tamsin @ Jan 14 2009, 11:46 AM) *

Describe how the financial state of the UK has changed in the last 6 months, covering unemployment, interest rates, inflation, balance of trade, GDP, FTSE100 (the list went on) and then suggest what should be done to improve the situation.



ohmy.gif ohmy.gif ohmy.gif

That definitely sounds like a PhD!! (I wouldn't know where to start... uhhh The Times perhaps?)





My argggg is that I had a great lesson last night ( biggrin.gif ) and when I tried to play this morning it sounded all squeaky and rubbish sad.gif
heslop01
Exam today
2 tomorrow
1 on Friday


huh.gif ohmy.gif sad.gif argh.gif
andante_in_c
QUOTE(tamsin @ Jan 14 2009, 11:46 AM) *

It was okay, but I ran very short of time. Another 15 mins and I would have been happy, another 30 and I would have nailed it. As it is, I didn't really manage to fully answer the final essay questions (Describe how the financial state of the UK has changed in the last 6 months, covering unemployment, interest rates, inflation, balance of trade, GDP, FTSE100 (the list went on) and then suggest what should be done to improve the situation.

I didn't manage to get through everything on the list, and barely touched on what should be done... but then, I think an entire PhD thesis could be churned out on the topic, so hopefully I'll get a respectable mark or what I did get onto paper!

Environmental management next week, and Transport Phenomena 3 ohmy.gif .

Reminds me of one of my A level Economics questions: 'How may inflation be controlled?'. I felt like answering 'If I knew that I'd be the Chancellor of the Exchequer'. biggrin.gif It was in the 1970s when inflation was rather higher than it is now.
Hedgehog
My only comment is AAAARRRRGGGGGHHHH! and the week is only just half over.

I've just spent today on the computer, almost all day dealing with a long list of bills, things to arrange - and not all of them mine.

Used up my supply of this week's luck going out to shops to buy a music book for new adult pupil, and sonny Jim's guitar book on order turned up just as I was in the music shop: then I went to the chemist and managed to buy something I've been looking for in lots of chemists: then I went to the sports shop and bought the same mouthguard that I would have had to buy online and wait for it to be delivered (by which time sonny Jim would have had his teeth knocked out in a game of rugby!!)

But everything's so slow - there's too much to do! sad.gif mad.gif
maledictis
*strop* dry.gif
(I don't do screaming)
An incompetant and mostly absent MD - I may as well just have MD'ed it myself dry.gif
Miss Ross
Grr... How many more times am I going to faint this week? dry.gif (Answers on a postcard, please!)
Babybird2
That's not good Miss Ross sad.gif

Hopefully the answer will be "never again"
lucky045
Miss R - hopefully not at all! I've got the same thing this week though - four times, so far and counting!

ARRRGGHHH! Why is it always the wrong person who's interested? (While the right person is completely oblivious, and indifferent?!)
lottie
Arggggggggh sad.gif

I need a cure for insomnia sad.gif
Maizie
ARGH!

People who possibly don't know what they are talking about (including, I hasten to add, myself!)

Fancy new way of getting some data out of the database and in to datasets. I set it all up and it was working right for 4 out of 5. For the 5th, I went to someone to ask their help. Who promptly told me I'd done it ALL wrong, that what I wanted it to do was impossible, and I should do it that way instead. This person couldn't adequately answer why the system could do the impossible for the four it was working on...

Anyway, followed their advice, played with this, that and the other...and now all 41 datasets are completely all over the place. I asked someone else, who sent me on to a third person, who is now investigating for me. But from that third person, I have finally received some documentation on how this was all meant to work.

Some of what the person who was helping me intially told me was wrong. The rest of what he told me is the way to do it...isn't in the documentation. And the author of the documentation...well, I don't hold out much hope that he'll have a clue, based on my previous interactions with him.

All well and good...but this little lots is meant to be going for QC on Monday. Ahahahahahahahaha! Still, hometime in an hour and a bit and I refuse to worry about it over the weekend (it'll be ready when it's ready, so there).
sarah123
QUOTE(sarah123 @ Jan 6 2009, 11:11 PM) *

QUOTE(sarah123 @ Dec 18 2008, 08:47 PM) *

Aaaargh!

Sometimes I just don't get my dad!!

We have an old cat (I think she's about 14) who has basically stopped eating for the last week and has obviously lost weight and isn't herself. A similar thing happened to her a few years ago where she literally refused to eat for about a month and we only just managed to save her by force-feeding her. That time, someone took her to the vet, and they didn't come up with anything very helpful apart from a couple of tins of special cat food.

My dad won't accept the possibilty that it could be anything other than the same as last time this time, so won't take her to the vet as 'it's still in the early days so we can't tell yet and it will cause more harm than good anyway because she's very nervous of strangers!'

When I pointed out that it would be better to take her to the vets now rather than to have to pay the emergency call-out fee over christmas, he said that in his experience of 20 years of cat-ownership, they don't go downhill quickly and die slowly over the course of a year or so, so there's no urgent hurry blink.gif I was particularly surprised he took this approach because given that someone we knew was completely fine in the summer, went to the doctors because they thought they were feeling a bit dodgy and had died within about two weeks. I mentioned this to him, but all it did was get an explanation of how cats are different to people.

I can tell that my mum thinks she should go to the vets too, but she's mainly my dad's cat, so noone wants to go against him.

Just aaaaaargh!!! argh.gif


AAAaaargh still and even more! sad.gif

Someone did finally take the cat to the vet, and they couldn't find anything wrong with her (so my dad was right in that respect). She hasn't really eaten anything since christmas day and is now literally just skin and bones, can't really support her and we're having to force feed her a mixture of baby food and gloopy cat food stuff. She should get better in the end, as it worked the time this happened before, although I don't remember her being quite this weak. sad.gif

The stupid thing is that we realised she was going downhill relatively quickly, but my dad insisted on putting out plates and plates of different food to try and tempt her with for ages (she wouldn't take any of it!) because he didn't want to put her through force-feeding again, but all the time, she was just getting worse and worse, and if we'd started straight away, she wouldn't be in this state! mad.gif

Why do I have to have a relapsed anorexic cat and a dad who goes so out-of-his way to cause no harm to her that he ends up making her worse?!?! sad.gif

argh.gif


Not really a scream this time, but I thought I'd better fill you in given how many people wished Klio better.

Sadly, she is no more. sad.gif It wasn't a particularly pretty end for her, but I'm glad she went of her own accord rather than having to be put down, as I'd have spent ages thinking 'what if...'. The vet did work out what was wrong with her in the end: her abdomen was full of liquid or a tumour or something not too good.
andante_in_c
So sorry, Sarah. thereThere.gif
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