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Solari
QUOTE(bobziekins @ Dec 23 2009, 12:38 PM) *

His closing argument was that if it wasn't opened, he would have been able to refund it, so it's our own fault for opening it. WELL HOW ON EARTH WERE WE SUPPOSED TO KNOW IF IT DOESN'T WORK WITHOUT OPENING IT?!?!?!?! mad.gif mad.gif mad.gif


I'm sure that's not the case... they are giving you the runaround... hopefully some legal eagles are reading this and can chip in? If your telly explodes 5 days after getting it home you can still take action, they won't refuse to take it back because it's not sealed in its original packaging!

If you're on the 3 network, can you take it into a 3 shop and see if they can get it working?
CJB
After promising myself that I wouldn't leave my Christmas shopping until Christmas eve ever again why am I at home at 16:15 on 23/12 with several presents left to buy?

Food shopping had to take priority on Monday and I haven't felt brave enough to leave the house since - just getting clothes from the house into the tumble drier in the garage has been scary enough.
heslop01
My fingers hurt of playing my uke ... sad.gif
pikkoloflautist
QUOTE(Solari @ Dec 23 2009, 01:01 PM) *

QUOTE(bobziekins @ Dec 23 2009, 12:38 PM) *

His closing argument was that if it wasn't opened, he would have been able to refund it, so it's our own fault for opening it. WELL HOW ON EARTH WERE WE SUPPOSED TO KNOW IF IT DOESN'T WORK WITHOUT OPENING IT?!?!?!?! mad.gif mad.gif mad.gif


I'm sure that's not the case... they are giving you the runaround... hopefully some legal eagles are reading this and can chip in? If your telly explodes 5 days after getting it home you can still take action, they won't refuse to take it back because it's not sealed in its original packaging!

If you're on the 3 network, can you take it into a 3 shop and see if they can get it working?


I say, find a way of getting your money back and then run away from the 3 shop as fast as you can. I had a 18 month contract with them that I have just managed to escape from. They were ringing me twice a week with "offers" and I was constantly receiving texts from 3rd parties. Phoning them about problems with my phone (of which I had many) resulted in next to nothing, seeing as their call centre seems to be based on the moon.

Just my 2p...
flobiano
christmas plans all going awry. Having dug my car out from under it's 6" blanket of snow this morning to make it to the supermarket (and more importantly back onto the drive), I thought I was set up for Christmas and wouldn't have to leave the house for the next 4 days. But a spanner has been thrown in the works and I may now have to pack up Christmas and drive down to London tomorrow. sad.gif

Complicated reasons that I don't want to go into, but definitely made me want to scream. Final decision to be made in the morning.
maggiemay
Doesn't sound good, Flobiano. Hope a good solution can be found.
bobziekins
Once all the snow/ice has gone after xmas, I'll probably go to the nearest 3 shop, thanks for the advice smile.gif
Solari
I appear to have chipped a tooth... how annoying sad.gif
flobiano
QUOTE(maggiemay @ Dec 23 2009, 09:46 PM) *

Doesn't sound good, Flobiano. Hope a good solution can be found.


Thanks - if I have to go to London it means it is better news in the long term - though a pain for me today - so, trying to keep an eye on the positives. We have had another 2" of snow overnight which will mean getting the car out will be even more hairy than yesterday. Could really have done without this stupid weather. Aaaarrgghhhh!

edit: not going to risk driving anywhere today. Not worth it. I've just accepted that Christmas isn't really going to happen properly this year. Hopefully other half will make it back some time tomorrow and we can have Chirstmas dinner together. If not I'll have it by myself and head down south on Saturday when hopefully some of the snow will have cleared again.

*Opens the first box of Christmas chocolates*
Celeste
I really loved him... sad.gif
barry-clari
QUOTE(Celeste @ Dec 25 2009, 03:39 AM) *

I really loved him... sad.gif


Hope you're OK Celeste...
Solari
QUOTE(barry-clari @ Dec 25 2009, 09:11 AM) *

Hope you're OK Celeste...


Likewise... thereThere.gif

Wow, how am I still here... I drank several beers and almost a litre of vodka yesterday... ohmy.gif I feel fine? huh.gif
Violin Hero
QUOTE(Solari @ Dec 26 2009, 02:46 PM) *

QUOTE(barry-clari @ Dec 25 2009, 09:11 AM) *

Hope you're OK Celeste...


Likewise... thereThere.gif

Wow, how am I still here... I drank several beers and almost a litre of vodka yesterday... ohmy.gif I feel fine? huh.gif


Don't turn into an alcoholic. My dad has and it does not have pretty consequences.
Solari
QUOTE(Violin Hero @ Dec 26 2009, 03:14 PM) *

Don't turn into an alcoholic. My dad has and it does not have pretty consequences.


I hardly think a random binge at Christmas constitutes becoming an alcoholic wink.gif

I've already been through a phase of something close to it though, and don't fancy doing it again, you're right, it's not pretty. blush.gif
sarah123
QUOTE(bobziekins @ Dec 23 2009, 12:38 PM) *

Ohhh, I got a new phone for my birthday. It was a skype phone, from 3. I asked for an S2 phone from 3, my friends have it and say it's really good. My parents got one slightly cheaper which wasn't actually made by 3. Anyhow, it seemed to be a good phone, and I was really happy with it biggrin.gif Then msn and skype both wouldn't work. I phoned up the 3 helpline, and followed all of their instructions. I called up skype and followed their instructions. I checked the connection in our area- it should be really strong. Still neither worked, so they told me to take it back to the shop, where despite the fact that it was opened, they should give me a refund as it's faulty hardware.

Took it back to currys, where my parents and I had a long debate with the man at customer services. He said that "it wasn't a fault in the hardware, because all of the other internet functions work, therefore it's not a faulty product, and we can't refund it, it must be a problem with the connectivity in your area". so, all the other internet functions work, but it's a problem with connectivity? mad.gif we showed him it wouldn't work with my account, it wouldn't work with his skype or msn account, we checked the shop connection, we checked on his phone (it worked), we reinstalled it, it wouldn't work. He said that we should contact skype and 3, WHICH WE HAD mad.gif he checked our area connection. Also, hundreds and hundreds of text messages had been coming through from the same person, saying "no message", I had contacted the person they were supposedly from (my grandpa) who said that there was no evidence of the text messages being sent, the sent box didn't have them in, he hadn't sent them, they were just appearing. Overall about 70 of them. It apparently still wasn't a fault in the phone. We went round and round in circles, the law states doesn't it that if you're not happy with a product, and it doesn't work for the intention you brought it for, then you should be able to get a full refund?

His closing argument was that if it wasn't opened, he would have been able to refund it, so it's our own fault for opening it. WELL HOW ON EARTH WERE WE SUPPOSED TO KNOW IF IT DOESN'T WORK WITHOUT OPENING IT?!?!?!?! mad.gif mad.gif mad.gif

Urfff, I know it's not his fault, and it's his job to say it, but just the way he did it, really smug, and like "I'm right, you're wrong, I will NOT give in, I won't even check with any other staff, I'm just right". We said that we could bring it up with statutory rights or something, and he said "yesss, well you could do that, but you would have to hire out a professional to state the hardware indeed does not work, then you would have to bring it up with our head office, and then you would get your money back, but you would have probably spent more than the phone is worth doing that". Smug moron.

So now we have a skype phone, which skype won't work on. Pah.

Sorry for the long moan.


Ok, so following the...erm...slight...recorder palava I've had this year, I'm pretty good with the whole faulty product laws.

If you buy a product/service, you're entitled to expect it to fulfill its purpose for a 'reasonable' amount of time (which varies depending on what the thing is but, in this case, I'd have thought you're well within it!). If it does not work properly, you're NOT necessarily entitled to a full refund. You have to take it back to the shop it was bought from and they're entitled to try and repair it and if that doesn't work, you have to accept a like-for-like replacement if they can't fix it. If they can't replace it, then they have to give you a full OR PARTIAL refund, depending on how long you'd had the product/what state it's in as a result of you using it (so, in this case, you'd hope that would be a full refund, but you have to be prepared for them not to agree to that because the amount has to be 'reasonable on for both sides').

Also, you have to be able to prove that you didn't cause whatever damage/problem there is. You might find that the shop denies that there's a problem with the phone (which sounds like it mihgt case here), in which case you need to get the opinion of an 'expert' and possibly take the shop to court if they still don't agree to repair/replace/refund.

Do everything in writing and keep copies and dates of any correspondance.

Hopefully, you shouldn't have too much of a problem with them - they ought to sort themselves ought a bit when you start quoting the relevant bits of consumer laws at them. wink.gif

Before doing anything though, I'd ring up local trading standards people (you can probably get the number through the your local council's website) to check exactly where you stand and what you're entitled to. If you're not completley clear about what they're saying, ask them to clarify again, because you don't want to end up where I did where they'd given me the impression I was entitled to a full refund, I spent ages tracking down an expert's opinion, then rang up to ask what to do next and was told I would have to accept a repair again or a replacement with a not-so-nice recorder or a (very) partial refund.

Also, whatever you do DO NOT USE THE PHONE AT ALL! You want to be able to say that you haven't touched it since X date, therefore they can't claim that you've made the problem worse than it was.

Fingers crossed you'll get this sorted out quickly.

Sarah smile.gif
Celeste
Rant... sorry. sad.gif

This has been the worst Christmas ever. And that's saying something, where my family is concerned.

I put off coming 'home' for as long as I could, because things were horrible before I went to uni. But towards the end of term I really started to miss things at home, especially my mum. I started to get quite excited to see them all. I planned to go back to uni sometime between Christmas and New Year because, with the Leeds concert on the 2nd January, I couldn't travel any later than the 30th December.

Yesterday was ok, really. I was really tired having not had much sleep and because of my illness, but I made it through the day, doing loads of energetic things that I'd usually avoid. But when I woke up today I felt absolutely rotten - as happens when you have ME and over-exert yourself. I was dizzy, burning, aching... And my mum found out and went absolutely nuts, telling me that she hates me, that I'm selfish, that I don't care about the family, that I ruin everything... And she really meant it. She made up loads of things that I'd supposedly 'done' too, and wouldn't let me speak to explain that I really hadn't done them. Awful things.

And then she told me to leave tonight. There are no trains until tomorrow. I'm tempted to jump into the River Ouse as soon as I get back to York because I'm obviously a complete failure to her and will never be coming back here. She doesn't know the half of it and won't let me talk to her to explain things.

I've had enough of being treated like I've done something wrong, when I'm the only one in this family who is doing something with their life. You'd think that with all the violent forcing to do well that she inflicted on me when I was in school that she'd be glad I'm not going to settle for working as a street cleaner. I wish she'd hit me now... at least then something would be physically sore rather than me just feeling like this.

Bah humbug.
Solari
QUOTE(Celeste @ Dec 26 2009, 04:56 PM) *

<snip>


No matter what your mum says about you, you have friends in York and elsewhere that definitely don't think you are a failure; me being one of them smile.gif. Let it go over your head if you can... Things will be much better when you return to uni... *hugs*
thereThere.gif

barry-clari
There are lots of people who care about you, Celeste. Take care, lots of us are thinking of you...
madbassoonist
Aaaagh - I don't like visiting relatives at Christmas sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif

Seeing my grandparents has become an ordeal because my grandfather has Alzheimer's. When we arrived last week he didn't know who we were. sad.gif Then, visiting my cousins - my aunt is so patronising, and my cousins' other grandmother (if that makes sense) is almost as annoying.

Still, looking on the bright side: I'm home now; I've finished all my homework and coursework; I don't go back to school till the 6th; and tomorrow I'll be seeing some of my friends at a music course. smile.gif
Solari
QUOTE(madbassoonist @ Dec 26 2009, 08:19 PM) *

Seeing my grandparents has become an ordeal because my grandfather has Alzheimer's. When we arrived last week he didn't know who we were. sad.gif


A lot of people will understand this. Unfortunately, as you get a bit older, you realise that this sort of thing is commonplace. I'm going through a similar sort of nightmare at the moment although it's a bit easier to deal with as I've been desensitised through previous experience. The older you get, the more you become pragmatic and accepting about these sort of things.
Fran*Piano
Try not to worry about it Celeste-far, far easier said than done, I know! You're worth far far far more than your family will ever know, so get out there and prove them wrong! Take care of yourself too-try not to make your illness any worse! You're in everyone's prayers and thoughts. xx
Misti
Christmassy hugs for everyone who needs them after a rough few days.

Celeste, remember you're living your life for yourself, not for your mother's approval, however hard it is to shake off the need to please.

Best wishes to everyone for the remainder of their holidays.

snowflake.gif



PS Starting to get very concerned when looking at the weather reports next week... please let my train northwards run okay...
Crotchetymum
Chin up, Celeste. You can get through it and out the other side thereThere.gif
katyjay
Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Dead fridge

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Solari
QUOTE(katyjay @ Dec 27 2009, 11:43 PM) *

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Dead fridge

sad.gif


At least it's cold enough to stick things outside in your paper recycling bin! Makeshift fridge! smile.gif
anacrusis
QUOTE(katyjay @ Dec 27 2009, 11:43 PM) *

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Dead fridge

sad.gif


thereThere.gif
have you still got enough snow outside to put its contents in the garden for now?
It's most certainly not the best time of year for it to happen - I know my sister has had to solve her refrigeration storage problems by making use of a Baltic atmosphere in her conservatory.....and the expense of a new fridge could really not be doing with coming now either sad.gif.
barry-clari
QUOTE(katyjay @ Dec 27 2009, 11:43 PM) *

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Dead fridge

sad.gif


Silly fridge... thereThere.gif
Maizie
Blocked drain!!

Fortunately (?) it is only the one from the kitchen, i.e. not the sewage pipe drain from the bathroom. I have the cover off and the gully is very full of yuck, but I don't have long enough gloves to really get down there and poke about with the trowel.

If I can work out how to get the cover off, then I'll try rodding it from that end, I imagine it is much easier and ensure the whole lot is clean.

For the moment, have shoved a load of caustic soda down there (plus a bucket full of hope!)

Shopping list:
Loooong thick rubber gloves.
Drain rods
Any sort of vicious chemical for unblocking drains that I can find.

Going out shopping with my mother shortly (which was supposed to be an all day event; but her front crown came out on a chocolate she was eating and now she doesn't want to go out anywhere because of how she looks with a missing tooth rolleyes.gif) Will persuade her that we will go via Wickes in order that I can buy all of the above.

Wouldn't mind so much but I am going away tomorrow and not back until Friday. Husband is still at home - will still be creating plenty of waste water in the kitchen - but he is at work and won't have time to sort anything out...
katyjay
QUOTE(anacrusis @ Dec 27 2009, 11:46 PM) *

QUOTE(katyjay @ Dec 27 2009, 11:43 PM) *

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Dead fridge

sad.gif


thereThere.gif
have you still got enough snow outside to put its contents in the garden for now?
It's most certainly not the best time of year for it to happen - I know my sister has had to solve her refrigeration storage problems by making use of a Baltic atmosphere in her conservatory.....and the expense of a new fridge could really not be doing with coming now either sad.gif.

The snow has gone, but the north-east corner of the house, by the back door, is always pretty cold and shaded, so we've got the cool-box loaded up with freezer packs and the bare minimum of replacement perishables out there....

The original perishables perished before we discovered the problem yesterday.

A new fridge (and removal of the corpse) will be on Wednesday morning
lucky045
I can't understand why my mother is unable to go three days without an argument. It's like, after three days of not arguing, she suddenly thinks 'Oh my gosh, I haven't got any excuse for considering Lucy the anti-christ out to ruin my life this week', so she comes in and starts screaming at me and calling me names over the first, tiny unimportant thing she can come up with. Today it was the fact that I'd dripped water on the bathroom floor after a shower. I offered to mop up, and apparently that's not enough, because I'm a selfish spoilt little b**** and couldn't care less about anyone else.

Then she went off to scream full blast at my father that of course she's entitled to call me names and swear at me, and she doesn't know why he (my father) is content to have me ruin their lives and destroy the family with my selfishness.
Same ol' same ol'.
rolleyes.gif
Maizie
QUOTE(Maizie @ Dec 28 2009, 10:17 AM) *
Blocked drain!!

Unblocked biggrin.gif

Didn't need to get in to the manhole end, the magic drain rods sorted it out from the gully end. It has now been caustic soda'd, left for a couple of hours, followed with as much boiling water as our kettle could carry, and has heavy-duty unblocker deagreaser stuff to follow tonight. I'm now going to put some washing on, which no longer involves horrid goo coming out of the drain and all over the neighbour's drive (which has been hosed clean as well smile.gif )


lucky045 and Celeste...having spent a reasonable 2 hours with my mother today, I can only look back at the time when I was 17/18/19, and realise just how much nicer she has become in the last several years. But it was horrendous at the time (and she wonders why sometimes she has to say things to me like 'You don't need to be afraid of me any more!' [my emphasis!])
lottie
QUOTE(lucky045 @ Dec 28 2009, 12:08 PM) *

I can't understand why my mother is unable to go three days without an argument. It's like, after three days of not arguing, she suddenly thinks 'Oh my gosh, I haven't got any excuse for considering Lucy the anti-christ out to ruin my life this week', so she comes in and starts screaming at me and calling me names over the first, tiny unimportant thing she can come up with. Today it was the fact that I'd dripped water on the bathroom floor after a shower. I offered to mop up, and apparently that's not enough, because I'm a selfish spoilt little b**** and couldn't care less about anyone else.

Then she went off to scream full blast at my father that of course she's entitled to call me names and swear at me, and she doesn't know why he (my father) is content to have me ruin their lives and destroy the family with my selfishness.
Same ol' same ol'.
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Ouch - that sounds like my teenage years too sad.gif But it turned out to be a reflection of her problems with life and not my worthlessness as a human being although it took me a long time to work that out.

Chin up - it does get better... honest. smile.gif
anacrusis
Might be worth doing a few calculations on this one - we worked out that the time our kids would be suffering hormone storms belonging to adolescence might well co-incide with a matching hormone storm in their mother - an explosive combination, really. I wonder if it's nature's way of ensuring that homes become too uncomfortable for kids and their parents, as part of the next stage of life, the Big Move Out?
Celeste
Actually, anacrusis - I think that's a very valid point.

I'm on my way back to university at the moment, and as awful as the last few days were with my mum, I actually miss her already. So, fundamentally, the 'right' feelings are there. rolleyes.gif

Lucy, I get that too. I just don't understand why she thinks I'm trying to destroy the family. To be honest, if I was going to, I wouldn't do it by staying in bed because I feel unwell. ph34r.gif Hope you feel a bit better now - see you on Saturday! (If you're around before ie Friday night, feel free to come over smile.gif)
Flossie
QUOTE(Celeste @ Dec 28 2009, 05:34 PM) *

Hope you feel a bit better now - see you on Saturday!

Saturday! ohmy.gif ohmy.gif ohmy.gif

I thought for some reason that I had another weekend to practice. ohmy.gif Better make sure I'm home early enough to get my poor little flute out tonight. ph34r.gif Most of the piece I'm doing is pretty easy (I have absolutely no idea why the ABRSM have it on their grade 8 list, it's mostly around grade 5 standard rolleyes.gif) but I will need to remind my fingers how the cadenzay bit goes. laugh.gif
Celeste
Yeah... I sort of realised last night. I too thought there was another week to go. I've been away from my instruments for a week! (Actually, ok - I admit it. I haven't touched my flute since September. ph34r.gif)
Flossie
QUOTE(Celeste @ Dec 28 2009, 05:54 PM) *

Yeah... I sort of realised last night. I too thought there was another week to go. I've been away from my instruments for a week! (Actually, ok - I admit it. I haven't touched my flute since September. ph34r.gif)

laugh.gif We're as bad as each other.
Celeste
highfive.gif We can wear the dunce hats! biggrin.gif
Flossie
QUOTE(Celeste @ Dec 28 2009, 06:05 PM) *

highfive.gif We can wear the dunce hats! biggrin.gif

laugh.gif

I've looked at my flute solo once. blush.gif
lucky045
Thanks everyone, I'm a bit tired of these stupid rows, but it does always get so much better when I'm not at home all the time. I'll be glad to get back to uni.

Celeste, thanks, I think my dad's going to drive me to Leeds on Saturday, but I'll let you know if that changes. I will probably stick around in York for a day or two after... library time...
Andy-piano-flute
QUOTE(Flossie @ Dec 28 2009, 05:48 PM) *

Most of the piece I'm doing is pretty easy (I have absolutely no idea why the ABRSM have it on their grade 8 list, it's mostly around grade 5 standard rolleyes.gif) but I will need to remind my fingers how the cadenzay bit goes. laugh.gif

Remember it's on the grade 8 list to be played with the Jazz Waltz ...!
The same can be said of other combinations in the grade 8 list eg the adagio of the 3 movements from Handel Sonata in B minor, or the 2nd prelude of Muczynski's 2nd & 3rd preludes. Maybe technically less difficult in some ways but difficult to play really musically & to grade 8 standard.
andante_in_c
QUOTE(Andy-piano-flute @ Dec 28 2009, 07:59 PM) *

QUOTE(Flossie @ Dec 28 2009, 05:48 PM) *

Most of the piece I'm doing is pretty easy (I have absolutely no idea why the ABRSM have it on their grade 8 list, it's mostly around grade 5 standard rolleyes.gif) but I will need to remind my fingers how the cadenzay bit goes. laugh.gif

Remember it's on the grade 8 list to be played with the Jazz Waltz ...!
The same can be said of other combinations in the grade 8 list eg the adagio of the 3 movements from Handel Sonata in B minor, or the 2nd prelude of Muczynski's 2nd & 3rd preludes. Maybe technically less difficult in some ways but difficult to play really musically & to grade 8 standard.

Off topic, but good to see you posting, APF! biggrin.gif
Flossie
QUOTE(Andy-piano-flute @ Dec 28 2009, 07:59 PM) *

QUOTE(Flossie @ Dec 28 2009, 05:48 PM) *

Most of the piece I'm doing is pretty easy (I have absolutely no idea why the ABRSM have it on their grade 8 list, it's mostly around grade 5 standard rolleyes.gif) but I will need to remind my fingers how the cadenzay bit goes. laugh.gif

Remember it's on the grade 8 list to be played with the Jazz Waltz ...!
The same can be said of other combinations in the grade 8 list eg the adagio of the 3 movements from Handel Sonata in B minor, or the 2nd prelude of Muczynski's 2nd & 3rd preludes. Maybe technically less difficult in some ways but difficult to play really musically & to grade 8 standard.

It's sounding awful. sad.gif sad.gif Admittedly I was playing sat cross-legged on my bed with the music propped against the headboard because my music stand is in my car and I can't get to it because the lock is frozen, but it still sounded rubbish. sad.gif The lack of orchestra the past three weeks is showing because it's top F# upwards that has gone yucky. wacko.gif Think my flute is coming to work with me tomorrow as well as my treble and clari - there'll be no-one else in and no neighbours to annoy. ph34r.gif
mr bean
I was sad to read of the problems that Lucy and Celeste have been experiencing; it seems that people, at times, vent their own anger and frustration on those closest and dearest to them for whatever reasons. However, nobody should have to put up with being emotional 'punch-bags'. I really hope things calm down and get resolved...try not to let it get you down too much. Anyway, big hugs to you both from me smile.gif
( and Celeste, I used to live in Morayshire and realise what a nightmare journey south it can be! Hope the journey went ok.) Best wishes, Robert.

(ps. I had a lucky escape this Christmas, as my in-laws were due to visit. However, my wife and I had flu symptoms, so they decided not to come!! Our Christmas dinner consisted of Tamiflu tablets, followed by a bit of sausage and mash!...anyway, sorry I've gone a bit off-topic!)
Celeste
Hope you feel better soon, Robert. It took me nearly 11 hours door-to-door, but it wasn't too bad once I got to Edinburgh. smile.gif
mr bean
Quite a marathon, Celeste, but 11 hours sounds like you still made good time! It's great that you're back safe and well. My wife seemed to get the flu worse than me...I think they just gave me the tamiflu as a precaution when I started showing similar symptoms. In hindsight, I think I've probably just had 'man-flu' as I'm not feeling too bad at all now! Mind you, I did take the 'hot toddy' approach somewhat to the extreme! wacko.gif
Anyway, best wishes for now from Mr. Bean and Teddy! (sorry...I'm in a bit of a silly mood today! tongue.gif )
Celeste
laugh.gif Silly moods can be good!

I had swine flu in October - I didn't take up the offer of Tamiflu because I was really scared of the side effects. Spent 10 days in bed though. mellow.gif How is your wife now? Feeling better I hope. smile.gif
Babybird2
I've gotten my flute out of it's case exaclty once since around the 19th, so it's not just you, Flossie and Celeste.... blush.gif
Flossie
QUOTE(Babybird2 @ Dec 29 2009, 05:35 PM) *

I've gotten my flute out of it's case exaclty once since around the 19th, so it's not just you, Flossie and Celeste.... blush.gif

laugh.gif

I think that knowing my solo piece was easy had lulled me into a false sense of security. ph34r.gif
Flossie
QUOTE(Flossie @ Dec 29 2009, 05:50 PM) *

QUOTE(Babybird2 @ Dec 29 2009, 05:35 PM) *

I've gotten my flute out of it's case exaclty once since around the 19th, so it's not just you, Flossie and Celeste.... blush.gif

laugh.gif

I think that knowing my solo piece was easy had lulled me into a false sense of security. ph34r.gif

It's that xxx top F#. Everything above it is okay (apart from the top top D - which is the highest note I know), and so is everything below it (apart from a strange buzz on certain notes, the source of which I can't identify), but the top F# is getting worse the more I work on it. mad.gif wacko.gif
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