QUOTE(bohemian @ Feb 26 2006, 11:13 PM)

Well, as far as actual college goes, RAM has a better reputation. On the other hand, there seems to be a trend of Juniors not going to college where they were at a Jr Dept. Maybe worth looking at the RCM?
Yes, Bo, contrary to what someone who had previously asked about comment sheets seems to think, Juniors who have spent all their years in junior depts tend to go abroad/elsewhere instead, or so I heard, and seldom head to the same senior college in general when they turn 18.

Don't know why.
My daughter's teacher teaches at RCM but he wasn't picked for this reason. He was already known to be particularly good with children, teaches also as a peri in the next borough and came very strongly rec by a local pianist. But we have been to RCM twice and no doubt, RCM is an excellent place. She will audition there, Bo, but I have some reservation that she'll fit in there. It's just my two-cents-worth opinion or maybe instinct that RAM and Guildhall are more child-sensitive in their approach? For example, when I asked several parents why they chose RCM, they gave me virtually identical answers - Oh, RCM is much better! They are the BEST for strings! (so what?!

) It's a lot more competitive than RAM. They let your kids learn from/play with and compete against older kids whereas in RAM, the little ones are specially cocooned off!
It's does not seem to be the "right" kind of place/idea for her? Don't get me wrong, VN is VERY competitive and a TERRIBLE perfectionist! When Gyorgy Pauk told a Chethams's 14-yr old at an RAM masterclass, not to vary his bow speed but to vary his vibrato, instead, to lend character to his piece, Pauk was asked, why not? His answer was - "Varying your vibrato is much, much easier than varying your bow speed. Why, they are only little kids at 14 or 17. We should not expect too much of little kids, you know!" He laughed aloud. VN's response? She said very, very softly but seriously, "I like Pauk, mum. He's funny. But I don't think he is right. In violin, everyone should try to be perfect. Even little kids."

Then she shrieked - But
THEY are not kids! I had to laugh.
Basically, if one puts a VERY young child who is innately both a perfectionist and naturally competitive in a highly competitive environment, peer pressure will eventually give the parents a tough job to prevent that child developing what tennis coaches call - the killer instinct. This instinct will kill her love of and passion for her violin when she discovers that there are a LOT of people out there in the big world who are just as good if not better than her. Welcome to the world of the Russians / Japanese!
Nonetheless I cannot dismiss ANY place if it happens to fit our budget AND if she can maintain her current belief that effective and helpful competition should be against a perfect STANDARD to aim for (regardless of one's age or musical experience) and NOT against individuals. She has a wonderful teacher who understands that plain truth.
The RAMPD's head comes across well with kids so it's a real shame we didn't get to meet either Alison Mears or Derek Rodgers of Guildhall. Was told by an assistant that AM is too busy and never around on Sats.