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IrisH - LoonY
Do you like your age? or do you hate it?

Do you feel proud that you're X years old or ashamed?

Any reasons to why you don't like people knowing how old you are?
elmo
I'm 18 and I don't mind it now, but I cried so much on my birthday! I dunno, 18 seemed like a turning point and I didn't want things to change. Things haven't changed, so now I'm not bothered!
Cyrilla
Er - just been discussing this in the cafe!

Well, there's nothing any of us can do about being the age we are, I guess...feeling a tad wobbly about mine at the moment but, hey, it's just a number! *slight gulp*

Being healthy and happy is more important than what age you are, I think...

And I have friends from 10 year olds to 80 year olds - and to be honest, I never think about a person's age as such - I only think about whether I like them or not! As you get older it's only the outside that gets crabby - you never really feel any different inside.. dry.gif

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noodle
No comment!

I hate cards with specific ages on them. Apart from that, birthdays are just an excuse for a biiiiiiiiiiggg party as I said in CISD thread.

Cyrilla, do you really think I'm 80?????? ohmy.gif
nicki_flute
In like my age, 16. I am not quite at the age where I am responsible for everything, yet I am not seen as a child any more.

I have friends of all ages, and never think about their ages, as Cyrilla said. smile.gif
july
I don't mind being 17, though I'm by far the youngest in my year at school. Still, it means that all my friends can drive and give me lifts and stuff, so it's okay!
bohemian
16 is cool. I can still get away with stuff because I can't drive, leave school and stuff, but if adults try to stop me doing stuff like they would with a kid, I can point out that I'm old enough to gamble smile.gif And I can sign for stuff myself. That makes me feel big.
crazy_purple_piano_freak
15 is kinda cool....though only 4 months till I'm 16 and that'll be better!! biggrin.gif
katyjay
I'm not that bothered. I'm 38 now, and in the last year or so I've been asked by different people whether I've left school yet and whether I've retired! I didn't know whether to laugh or cry for each of those.
sarah-flute
laugh.gif

I don't really feel my age, and don't really think about ages much - I've always been terrible at judging ages anyway.

I quite like my life at the moment in most respects though, so you could say I like my age or at least don't hate it.
IrisH - LoonY
So if all this is true. Why do very few of post 18 year olds say how old they are?
jill
I'm 30 next month but get mistaken for a 6th former when im teaching! Kinda cool but wish I was actually a 6th former!
isabelsmells
15 is good, but can't wait till I'm 16, only 20 more days!
Chaos_91
I'm 15 and I loate it dry.gif

No ebay, No lottery scratchcards, no going on planes/boats without an 18 year old laugh.gif so unfair
chocolatedog
Well I'm coming up to a major birthday later this year, but I suppose I'm not overly worried at the moment. Some of my friends are younger, some much older, and it's really as young as you feel. I think it's important to keep the inner child alive - I really enjoy kicking through leaves, balancing along the kerb, skipping, and stuff like that. And keeping a sense of wonder at the natural world around.........

And luckily for me too, a number of people I haven't seen for a good few years say I look younger now than I did then!!!!! So I guess in some ways, I feel fairly good about it! (Ask me again when I've had my major birthday and I might say different!!! laugh.gif unsure.gif )
sarah-flute
QUOTE(IrisH - LoonY @ Mar 5 2006, 01:42 PM) *

So if all this is true. Why do very few of post 18 year olds say how old they are?

Because it didn't occur to us? rolleyes.gif

I'm 27 for the record, 28 in September.

I still get regularly mistaken for an 18 year old so I don't worry about looking old just yet, and I certainly don't feel old.
YetAnotherPianist
I'm 23. The train conductor tried to sell AP and me half-fare tickets the other day wink.gif.
sarah-flute
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Is it me or is it actually more common to be obsessed with ages when you're younger??

I hardly think about it.... except when people mistake my age hugely and I have to laugh!
YetAnotherPianist
I think you're right; if I was younger I might announce that I was 23 and a third wink.gif.
sarah-flute
laugh.gif laugh.gif

I am 27 and a half, but I only know that because it's a friend's birthday today who's almost exactly 6 months younger than me. Between times I would have to work it out but I'd be unlikely to bother........
IrisH - LoonY
QUOTE(Chaos_91 @ Mar 5 2006, 02:03 PM) *

No ebay


You could easily join eBay even at 15. I know 13 year olds who buy and sell on it!
sarah-flute
Legally? rolleyes.gif
IrisH - LoonY
QUOTE(YetAnotherPianist @ Mar 5 2006, 02:09 PM) *

I'm 23. The train conductor tried to sell AP and me half-fare tickets the other day wink.gif.

Sounds good!

ohmy.gif It didn't Sarah?! *gasp*
sarah-flute
Huh?? *confused*
sbhoa
I'm proud of my age..... took me 49 years to get there.... tongue.gif
Chaos_91
laugh.gif Though parents won't let me use their credit card, so I have to wait until 16 and get one myself dry.gif
Car Expert
Even though I'm 14, I still want to get older so I can drive and do other adult things! tongue.gif

Car Expert
IrisH - LoonY
QUOTE(Chaos_91 @ Mar 5 2006, 02:20 PM) *

laugh.gif Though parents won't let me use their credit card, so I have to wait until 16 and get one myself dry.gif

Don't *always* need a credit card for eBay. I've used eBay for the last year or so and never had a credit card to buy anything. Even a £60 box set of recorder music CDs from Spain!
nicki_flute
You can't get a credit card a 16 can you? I have a Solo card, but even that is a debit card.
Chaos_91
I was told by my Business Studies teacher the legal age for a credit card is 16 as you can sign up for things on your own or soemthing like that, and thats why all the shopping websites in our school are banned.

Chris how did you pay for them *interested*

Strange, I just checked online about the required age, almost every credit card says you must be 18 or over unsure.gif
pianoandflute
i am 17 it's ok but i miss the time when i was younger sometimes
elmo
Age has no meaning once you leave school though. I agree that it still matters, but I found out yesterday that one of my friends in first year here at uni is going to be 21 next week! I'm the youngest out of all my friends at uni. My eldest friend is 26, and I know 2 people at choir who are 30.
jo.clarinet
Well, I'll be 51 next month, and although I would quite like to look as I did 30 years ago, I wouldn't swap myself now for myself then. I'm enjoying myself - especially musically - enormously at the moment. The children are grown up and independent, financially we're reasonably well off, I have the best job in the world, and I can do all the things I couldn't afford or didn't have time to do when I was younger - it's absolutely brilliant! biggrin.gif
barry-clari
I'm 32, and quite content about it. My age isn't something I tend to think about too often, I'm lucky enough to feel much as I did when I was younger!
IrisH - LoonY
QUOTE(Chaos_91 @ Mar 5 2006, 02:42 PM) *

Chris how did you pay for them *interested*

Sent cash. Now for something as much as £60 I had the mail insured of course!
another crazy pianist
I'll be 32 in July. On my birthdays, I've always been proud of my age, especially when I got 30. tongue.gif tongue.gif
But I've got mixed feelings about it; time seems to go by faster and faster... ph34r.gif
melody_maker
I like being 14 smile.gif
Oddball
I don't mind being 15.
Chaos_91
QUOTE(IrisH - LoonY @ Mar 5 2006, 03:55 PM) *

QUOTE(Chaos_91 @ Mar 5 2006, 02:42 PM) *

Chris how did you pay for them *interested*

Sent cash. Now for something as much as £60 I had the mail insured of course!


I will have to try that sometime smile.gif Though would that not be a very unsecure method unsure.gif
Cyrilla
QUOTE(sbhoa @ Mar 5 2006, 02:19 PM) *

I'm proud of my age..... took me 49 years to get there.... tongue.gif


SNAP sad.gif ohmy.gif rolleyes.gif
Deborah
No point not liking your age, as there's not much you can do about it.

Next month I have a minor celebration - I shall be 33.3333333 laugh.gif The approach to 30 was mildly traumatic, but I needn't have worried - I don't actually feel any older now than I did when I was 21.
sarah-flute
Hehehe cool, 33.3333333 is groovy biggrin.gif
snuglivixen
I'm.... erm..... I always have to work it out, soooo..... 100 - 59 = 41 + 06 = 47 - 1 ,cos it's not my birthday yet.... another 8 days to go. = 46 and lots of days. biggrin.gif wink.gif tongue.gif

It just really doesn't matter to me what my age is. And like other's I don't even think about how old anyone else is.
anakrron
I'm 16, and I'm fine with it. I feel much more mature & adult-ish, as I am now legally allowed to do several things. At the same time though, I do miss the times when I was 11 or so and I was really innocent and happy biggrin.gif
Suzy Creamcheese
48 on my birth certificate, about 23 in my head cool.gif
LadyMoonlight
I'm 34 but have been told I look 21 so I'm quite pleased about that. I don't really dress (or act) my age most of the time. Mentally I'm 16 (or even younger sometimes!). Boyfriend is 23 and sometimes he's the more mature half of the double!
jod
36, and I had the hitting thirty crisis thing. Something about becoming a mother aged 29 and celebrating sons christening 5 days earlier didn't help. Suddenly I felt all responsible.

With clever use of hair-dye I still look in my early twenties
another crazy pianist
Many people here claim to look younger than they are... well, apparently I don't. I'm 31 and recently someone took me to be 38, and this happened just after I shaved off my long beard... huh.gif
So now I'm growing my beard again, to hide my wrinkles. tongue.gif
andante_in_c
QUOTE(Cyrilla @ Mar 5 2006, 05:57 PM) *

QUOTE(sbhoa @ Mar 5 2006, 02:19 PM) *

I'm proud of my age..... took me 49 years to get there.... tongue.gif


SNAP sad.gif ohmy.gif rolleyes.gif


Double snap. biggrin.gif biggrin.gif A good vintage, obviously.
Boo Radley
QUOTE(andante_in_c @ Mar 6 2006, 10:51 AM) *

QUOTE(Cyrilla @ Mar 5 2006, 05:57 PM) *

QUOTE(sbhoa @ Mar 5 2006, 02:19 PM) *

I'm proud of my age..... took me 49 years to get there.... tongue.gif


SNAP sad.gif ohmy.gif rolleyes.gif


Double snap. biggrin.gif biggrin.gif A good vintage, obviously.

Oh dear there's gonna be a lot of unhappy bunnies on here over the next year then. wink.gif
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