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pianist_1210
Hey everyone, sorry about the fact that it doesn't really related to music...
but I just wondered, at what age does people have their first girl/boyfriend??

I think I'm bit of a nerd because I'm 18 this year and I never had a girlfiend... unsure.gif am I normal??
YetAnotherPianist
I wouldn't worry about it; and besides, I pride myself in being a nerd wink.gif.

To answer your question: 16, and no prizes for guessing who she is smile.gif.
mrbouffant
I was 37....
ashmoors
Sure you are normal. I have mates older than 18 and they havent had a gf yet. Doesnt matter if u are nerdy. Im nerdy and I have a gf lol (see profile pic tongue.gif)
Who is yours YAP? I dont know *blushes*
Bb Clarinet
QUOTE(pianist_1210 @ Mar 14 2006, 09:50 AM) *

I think I'm bit of a nerd because I'm 18 this year and I never had a girlfiend... unsure.gif am I normal??


Of course you are normal. Don't worry about it. Had my first girlfriend when I was 14, then I went gay and had a serious relationship with a guy for 3 years, who I miss terribly. And now I'm single. There's a lack of good guys n cumbria!
elmo
QUOTE(Bb Clarinet @ Mar 14 2006, 10:09 AM) *

There's a lack of good guys n cumbria!


Tell me about it!
YetAnotherPianist
QUOTE(ashmoors @ Mar 14 2006, 10:04 AM) *

Who is yours YAP? I dont know *blushes*

Take the Y off YAP wink.gif.
Bb Clarinet
QUOTE(elmo @ Mar 14 2006, 10:39 AM) *

QUOTE(Bb Clarinet @ Mar 14 2006, 10:09 AM) *

There's a lack of good guys n cumbria!


Tell me about it!



sad.gif
katyjay
Met my husband when we were both nearly 18. Got engaged to him when we were both just turned 21. Married him when we were just turned 23. And at 38 and a half, still going strong.......

And yes he was my first boyfriend, and I his first girlfriend.
carol*piano
First boyfriend at 16 - also snapped up my husband when he was 16 (I was 23!) Catch 'em young I say when they can still be trained! We are still together 14 years later!

QUOTE(mrbouffant @ Mar 14 2006, 10:04 AM) *

I was 37....

Was that a virtual girlfriend or a real one?! wink.gif tongue.gif
bassmadmatt
I had my first girlfriend when I was 15, been with her for 10 months now! smile.gif

Matt cool.gif
mrbouffant
QUOTE(carol*piano @ Mar 14 2006, 12:29 PM) *

QUOTE(mrbouffant @ Mar 14 2006, 10:04 AM) *

I was 37....

Was that a virtual girlfriend or a real one?! wink.gif tongue.gif


Inflatable... blink.gif
bassmadmatt
laugh.gif Hahahahaha! biggrin.gif Classic! laugh.gif

Matt cool.gif
en serrant
When I was four, I was going to marry the boy next door. But then the boy next door the other side who was three years older started teasing him that I was his girlfriend and he wouldn't even speak to me after that.
janexxx
First met John when I was none and he was 4 days old, started going out at 19, but had been friends all our lives, got engaged at 21, got married at 23, still together after *mumbles* years. (Katyjay, is there a pattern here!) smile.gif

[wannabe]pianogenius.
had my first boyfriend at 12 biggrin.gif


awwwwwww ...those were the days..
Oddball
15 really blink.gif

And you lot can guess who that is...
Tess
QUOTE(katyjay @ Mar 14 2006, 12:12 PM) *

Met my husband when we were both nearly 18. Got engaged to him when we were both just turned 21. Married him when we were just turned 23. And at 38 and a half, still going strong.......

And yes he was my first boyfriend, and I his first girlfriend.


Same here. I met my first and only bf at 22. biggrin.gif I was his 2nd gf. sad.gif laugh.gif Did go out before that with just a few other guys but they did not interest me as they were quite boring.

You ARE normal. But hey, so what if you aren't? We all have got to accept ourselves just the way we are. If not, who will?
Choddy
13 i was laugh.gif lasted 6 months wahey!!

Then about 3 in the space of four weeks when I was 14, and now been with current for about 4 weeks biggrin.gif lol
mrbouffant
QUOTE(Oddball @ Mar 14 2006, 04:36 PM) *

15 really blink.gif
And you lot can guess who that is...


Errr.... Rainbow?
wink.gif
Oddball
QUOTE(mrbouffant @ Mar 14 2006, 04:40 PM) *

QUOTE(Oddball @ Mar 14 2006, 04:36 PM) *

15 really blink.gif
And you lot can guess who that is...


Errr.... Rainbow?
wink.gif


rolleyes.gif
Deborah
19. I still bump into him occasionally, which is {font=sarcastic}always{/font} a barrel of laughs.

I was 20 when I first met Husband; we didn't start going out until I was 23. We married when I was 25, nearly 7.5 years ago.

mrbouffant had his first girlfriend at 37? I thought he was only 36 now unsure.gif
sarah-flute
QUOTE(mrbouffant @ Mar 14 2006, 12:43 PM) *

QUOTE(carol*piano @ Mar 14 2006, 12:29 PM) *

QUOTE(mrbouffant @ Mar 14 2006, 10:04 AM) *

I was 37....

Was that a virtual girlfriend or a real one?! wink.gif tongue.gif


Inflatable... blink.gif

laugh.gif

QUOTE(janexxx @ Mar 14 2006, 02:03 PM) *

First met John when I was none and he was 4 days old, started going out at 19, but had been friends all our lives, got engaged at 21, got married at 23, still together after *mumbles* years. (Katyjay, is there a pattern here!) smile.gif

Awwww biggrin.gif

I was.... *thinks* in my 2nd year at uni, therefore must have been 20, I think...
jod
17, The crazy thing is that my hubby has met 3 of my previous boyfriends, and we regularly visit his ex and her hubby. But then what do you expect out of a couple of (now ex) prommers?
hellokitty
I had a "boyfriend" at 7 but my first serious relationship was when I had just turned 13. 7 months later and we are still going strong!!

I also had a secret marriage to Car Expert laugh.gif wub.gif

I also have a lesbian lover (joking around) at school tongue.gif
Car Expert
QUOTE(hellokitty @ Mar 14 2006, 06:55 PM) *
I also had a secret marriage to Car Expert laugh.gif wub.gif
Indeed! biggrin.gif wub.gif

Car Expert
SuzyMac
First one was 13...next one not 'til I was 17! Must have been an experience!! Met the current one aged 19, started dating age 20, will be 24 on my wedding day. biggrin.gif
hellokitty
QUOTE(Car Expert @ Mar 14 2006, 06:55 PM) *
QUOTE(hellokitty @ Mar 14 2006, 06:55 PM) *
I also had a secret marriage to Car Expert laugh.gif wub.gif
Indeed! biggrin.gif wub.gif

Car Expert


Loving every minute of it tongue.gif

In case any one ever wondered the name of my "lesbian lover" is Tess Tickle!!! haha!! Everyone calls her that its halarious.
crazy_purple_piano_freak
sad.gif 15 and still going single....
Kinda hard to get a guy when you're shy and go to an all girls school ph34r.gif
Car Expert
QUOTE(hellokitty @ Mar 14 2006, 07:01 PM) *
QUOTE(Car Expert @ Mar 14 2006, 06:55 PM) *
QUOTE(hellokitty @ Mar 14 2006, 06:55 PM) *
I also had a secret marriage to Car Expert laugh.gif wub.gif
Indeed! biggrin.gif wub.gif

Car Expert
Loving every minute of it tongue.gif
Same here! tongue.gif

Car Expert
hellokitty
QUOTE(crazy_purple_piano_freak @ Mar 14 2006, 07:03 PM) *
sad.gif 15 and still going single....
Kinda hard to get a guy when you're shy and go to an all girls school ph34r.gif


I go to an all girls school so i TOTALLY know what you're going through! I met my bf through my piano teacher! She put me in an ensemble on piano with no one that i knew! But it worked out for the best tongue.gif
katyjay
QUOTE(crazy_purple_piano_freak @ Mar 14 2006, 07:03 PM) *

sad.gif 15 and still going single....
Kinda hard to get a guy when you're shy and go to an all girls school ph34r.gif


I remember being like that many, many years ago.

But you won't be 15 and at a girls' school for ever. And things get better as you get out of your teens. Both in terms of meeting other people, and coping with shyness.
crazy_purple_piano_freak
Whats weird is that at mixed junior school I was the loudmouth who chased all the guys ph34r.gif
hellokitty
lol!
Car Expert
Strange! laugh.gif

Car Expert
hellokitty
I'm actaully quite the opposite. I've been telling guys they're fit just like that! (CE would know...) While in primary i wouldnt act anything but friendly!
The Oboemeister
[quote name='katyjay' date='Mar 14 2006, 07:08 PM' post='283247']
[quote name='crazy_purple_piano_freak' post='283241' date='Mar 14 2006, 07:03 PM']
sad.gif 15 and still going single....
Kinda hard to get a guy when you're shy and go to an all girls school ph34r.gif
[/quote]

Same here but male in an all-male school... looking out on the equivalent all-female school just over the road! I joined the joint afterschool club things which seem nerdy (Japanese lessons, yay!) but I thought it would be interesting.

16, no girlfreind yet, but we'll see, I've been intending to ask out one of the girls in my Japanese class for the last 3 months but still haven't plucked up the courage!
hellokitty
Go for it!
LadyOrchestra
I'm 19 and no boyfriend yet... who cares? there's time needed for a relationship...it's all about sharing smile.gif
snuglivixen
15, arranged by my mum [ ohmy.gif yes really, a 'nice lad' she knew from the shop ph34r.gif ]
I was at a all girls school.
At age 18 I married bf number 6. Disaster!
Age 24 married again, [had been living together 5 years at that point] lasted 16 years.
Now in a longterm relationship [4.5 years] with NO intention of ever marrying again! biggrin.gif
The Oboemeister
QUOTE(snuglivixen @ Mar 14 2006, 07:40 PM) *

15, arranged by my mum [ ohmy.gif yes really, a 'nice lad' she knew from the shop ph34r.gif ]
I was at a all girls school.
At age 18 I married bf number 6. Disaster!
Age 24 married again, [had been living together 5 years at that point] lasted 16 years.
Now in a longterm relationship [4.5 years] with NO intention of ever marrying again! biggrin.gif


It's a pity it doesn't all turn out well...
crazy_purple_piano_freak
QUOTE(The Oboemeister @ Mar 14 2006, 07:17 PM) *
Same here but male in an all-male school... looking out on the equivalent all-female school just over the road! I joined the joint afterschool club things which seem nerdy (Japanese lessons, yay!) but I thought it would be interesting.

16, no girlfreind yet, but we'll see, I've been intending to ask out one of the girls in my Japanese class for the last 3 months but still haven't plucked up the courage!

The boy's high is just across the road from us but we never get to see any of the guys and there are no joint things that I could really go to... ph34r.gif And go for it!!! smile.gif
hellokitty
I have a all guys school across the road from my all girls school as well!! We share classes with the guys school in 6th formi cant wait lol...oh wait im taken...damn
crazy_purple_piano_freak
laugh.gif
hmm weird why are all single sex schools opposite schools of the opposite sex?
JohnS
My first and only girlfriend was when I was 27. I proposed to her a few weeks later and married the following year. This May it will be ten years married.

I could never work out why people wanted to be in relationships in school. I had much more fun studying the piano and reading books and atlases!! biggrin.gif
hellokitty
well we have two sets of private schools in jersey Beaulieau Convent school and De La Salle, and then theres Jersey College for Girls (mine!) and Victoria College. There's also other private prep school that go up to 14
scotty_doesnt_know
had my first when i was ummm *thinks* 11/12 but wasnt serious then had one when was 12/13 which was sort of serious.

Would like one at the moment but way too busy! sad.gif
hellokitty
QUOTE(scotty_doesnt_know @ Mar 14 2006, 08:36 PM) *
had my first when i was ummm *thinks* 11/12 but wasnt serious then had one when was 12/13 which was sort of serious.

Would like one at the moment but way too busy! sad.gif


Me and my bf's gereal timetables always seem to clash! I asked him if he wanted to go see a movie but something clashed with it! It's always like that...
scotty_doesnt_know
well im going to mallorca in 3 months so i will have some good fun there...hehe
hellokitty
Get in there! hehe
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