QUOTE(purple viola @ Jun 23 2006, 04:40 PM)

I also get extremely nervous playing in front of people, and have been working on various ideas to get more experience of performing in front of people. These are my main ideas.
Forum concerts:
Playing in a forum concert is really good as the audience is so supportive. I played in one earlier this year. That experience gave me just enough confidence to start trying other things.
Church Services
Occasionally I play a solo at the end of a church service. I thought that people probably wouldn't be listening too carefully as they would be leaving, but they stay and listen. I also sometimes accompany the hymns on my viola when there is no pianist or organist. This has helped me a lot in getting used to playing in front of people.
Busking:
I haven't done this yet as it is makes me feel a bit vulnerable, but I know people who do this just to get used to playing in public.
Old Peoples' homes:
I haven't done anything about this yet, but I know some of the old people aren't able to go out much, and thought they might like the idea of a little free concert, maybe including some songs that they can sing to, but with a couple of my solo pieces. They might not notice the mistakes too much if they are a little deaf.
Lunchtime Recital for Charity (with retiring collection):
I haven't done anything about this one either (not confident enough yet). I thought that if I offered to do a recital for a local charity, then some of the people involved in the charity might be able to encourage a few people to come and listen. My problem with this one is that I haven't found anyone to accompany me on the piano yet ..........
Great ideas, these.
I haven't yet been to a forums concert myself, but may well do one day...!
The Church one is out for me as I don't attend;
Busking I would really like to try at some point (watch this space!);
Residential homes. I have often wondered about this too. I think it would be a lovely thing to do, especially if you can play some older, well-known song tunes. I'd like to try this at some point. Let us know if you do, won't you, purple viola?
Lunchtime recital. DO IT! I think that'd be great. Having it in aid of a charity makes it easier in a way as you know people are not paying
you to play. If you're not quite up to it on the nerves front, maybe you could double up with someone else who is in a similar situation and do a "shared recital"? Again, it's something I wouldn't mind doing myself - one day...
Good luck with finding a pianist!

Ems, I'm also in the post-DipABRSM, pre-LRSM phase and know exactly what you mean about not knowing whether you have matured enough to go on to the next level. Remember, there's no rush. And I guess it'd be much better to work on overcoming performance nerves than to go into the diploma with the worry of this "excess baggage". Best of luck!