Ok sorry guys I need to have another moan. I just got back from Austria today all happy. Unfortunately I found out someone I know died this morning from stroke so that put me down a bit. Then I went online and was hoping to talk to this person I've been getting to know recently at school. He's nice and sometimes flirty but we don't fancy each toerh, at least I don't think I do. So anyway, he came online, and instead of a great big SOPHIE I've missed you soooo much *kiss* as you'd expcet he didn't say anything!! So after half an hour, I said hi, and he didn't answer. Then a bit later I said "have you decided you hate me or something now?" he said "no why would I?"
Then my friend who likes his aswell said that her cousin was annoying her because she saw him and thought "OMG HE'S SOOO FIT" and has been talking to him. I noticed her name on his screen name. And he hasn't been saying anything. I know it sounds really stupid, but I find it really upsetting and don't know what to say to him.
Another thing is that my other friend says he's always interested insomeone new, she said this a while ago, and that he well, was with someone at the same time as someone else if you know what I mean.
Thing is, I don't want to NOT be friends with him, as I'm sure people will say "ahh he's a waste of time, ditch him" but I'd like to sort of tell him what I think and things like that, but I don't want to get aggresive either! I'm really sorry for hastling you but please help me if you've any suggestions.
Thanks
Sophie

Sorry to hear the bad news and that you're feeling down. You said that you don't think you fancy him, yet it seems to bother you about who he fancies and goes out with etc...so do you fancy him or don't you? If you want to keep him as a friend, then surely it shouldn't matter? Maybe you could ask him how things are going, if he's done anything interesting while you've been away and see if he says anything about it -at least then you would be able to talk about it when he's suggested the topic rather than confronting him.
Sorry I can't be of any more use, hope you're feeling a bit happier soon
love hoxie
xxx

Thanks! What I meant was like I don't really fancy him, but I just understand why he suddenly acts like I'm not event here and moody now that he's talking to my friends cousin, and the fact that people say he's two timed, so I don't really know how to trust him.
I'm going to try and talk to him.

Soph, I'm sorry to hear about the death of the person you knew.

I think if this chap won't talk to you online, you should leave it. Not ditch him, just not follow it up any more. Either he'll talk to you in real life or he won't. If he doesn't, that's his loss.

Thank you, well he's actually gone now.

And I'm actually talking to someone I usually find annoying, but I've found he's okay actually. He's being a bit more sympathetic.

There might be lots of reasons why he wasn't talking to him. Maybe your username wasn' appearing on his screen, the messages getting stuck somewhere, he just hadn't noticed! I always get annoyd when ANYONE doesn't talk to me, and there's usally a logical reason! One of my friends thought I was ignoring him coz I never spoke to him, but he wasn't added to my list, so according to mine he didn't exist!

I suppose it could be, but from his attitude I suppose he's just wrapped up in this new girl, but I'l ask when I've got the courage lol.

Just thought I'd say he started chatting yay!
I thnk my friend might have said somthing though.
Don't think he's quite as chatty but i suposse it's a start.