Not sure what to suggest then.
I tried playing clarinet when I was at school and I hated it, I hated all woodwind instruments except the recorder. I came back to it at my own choice at university when I bought my first soprano sax (it was nasty, Taiwanese, sharp.... thinking about it makes me feel sick) and I then sold it on Ebay and bought a Blessing curved soprano (Also on ebay, at a bargain price). I have never looked back...
What I guess I am trying to say, is relax about it. Encourage the recorder playing, there are beautiful pieces for recorder (Books with CDs are great) and its so fulfilling to hear the recorder played well. Tenor recorder is another option, as it sounds nice- I didn't like the sound of the descant and learned on treble and tenor.
The ocarina is another instrument worth considering if you want to encourage someone to be musical. I played that for years and now teach it- and it is a cheap enough stocking filler. I can highly recommend Ocarina Workshop for their instruments and music books.