Advice needed please:
Situation: At the start of this calendar year, I told a 17 year old pupil who has been with me about 8 years but has always been inherently lazy, that I would enter him for the Period A exam in Grade V if he promised to work at the pieces. He agreed to do so and although he has been doing a bit more practiced I judged that there was simply not enough improvement to make us optimistic about even a scraped pass. Bearing in mind that the boy has already failed an exam under my tutelage some five years ago and I that I didn't want him to repeat this humiliation, I suggested that he should be withdrawn. Both he and his mother (somewhat) reluctantly agreed that they did not want another fail.
I've felt that I've been rather hasty about entering him and although I did so with good intentions of trying to scare him into working, I realise that it was the wrong decision. I have offered to bear about one half of the cost of the fee, so his last two lessons have been free. Is this a dangerous precedent to set? Has anyone else been in this position? (The boy has bought the new 07-08 syllabus and started on his list C piece today, very promisingly. The old ones had run out so we have had to start afresh. The pieces running out was incidentally another factor which precipiated my entering him for Easter in the first place).
Another thing I'd like advice for is how exactly I go about officially notifying the board and the examination centre. Last time when I had to withdraw someone I informed the board in London, but the info didn't seem to get passed on to the centre and they were waiting for my candidate in vain. What is the easier and most foolproof procedure please?
Many thanks,
LR
