QUOTE(chocolatedog @ Apr 18 2007, 08:59 AM)

But the "right stuff" as you seem to imagine it is not necessarily class - it's personality and character, and if someone from public school has more of that, then they're more likely to get in.....but it doesn't always get found there - it can be found anywhere.......
Public schools also take pupils without the means to pay - there are scholarships and entrance exams......a fair few pupils are there because of their abilities and not because of daddy's money, and my guess is that even ffrom these there will be a fair few who go up to Oxbridge.......
Edit: and BTW I did Latin at A level - not because I had to, because in any case, when I made my choices I hadn't even thought about universities much - but because I
wanted to........
Someone's got a massive chip on their shoulder..........

People who notice and comment on class bias in this country are always being told they have a 'chip on their shoulder'. I have no reason for a chip - I come from an educated middle-class family myself as it happens, and have spent roughly equal amounts of time in an inner-city South London state primary, an exclusive private school and a state grammar so I've seen the education system from three different sides.
When I was in the private school (5 years) I distinctly remember the staff constantly telling us we were the elite and somehow uniquely special because of it. The classes were small and we called the teachers 'mistresses' and the classes 'forms'. Breaktime food was 'tuck' and homework was 'prep'. Oh and we played lacrosse!
And why were we the elite and uniquely special? Because our parents had the money to pay for it! Some were bank managers (investing in South Africa - nice!), some were academics (mine), some were in insurance and some had inherited money. Many of the girls had anti-Semitic attitudes which came out when they found out I was Jewish. Nice(again)! Not to worry, I met up with a bunch of them recently at a Friendsreunited do and they were lovely - and still very upper middle class! We got very drunk and had a hoot.
The grammar school was different - a better social mix but still mainly middle-class because the middle class parents were generally better at priming their kids for the 11+ exam.
The primary was a true reflection of the area we lived in - well-off families, middling families, people living in council estates and people living in what were then called 'slums' all mixed in together. It was fun.
So please - I don't have a chip - I just know that in this country money buys privilege and when it comes to children's education money shouldn't come into it at all because every child deserves an equal chance. England is still very funny about all this - it's a fact of life here.
Here's a little anecdote about class - when I was little I wanted to play in the street with the other kids who were playing hopscotch. My parents wouldn't let me - I was only allowed to play with two of the other kids there - handpicked by my mum.

My partner, who comes from a working class background, tells me some of the other children in his class were prohibited from playing with him because they thought his background was too rough!
So presumably if he'd been playing on my street my mum wouldn't have let me play with him. She loves him now, so you've got to laugh.

Violinia
PS To get this in to an objective perspective, I have French and Belgian friends who say they're always staggered by the whole class thing when they come here - they think most of us are in complete denial about it. It's a tribe thing really - but that's a whole other subject.