Below is a post I made the other day, hedwig. It's in the thread which I started at the beginning of the year called
Non-singers can learn to sing, Yaay!. My voice
is was

so bad that I once went on a course called "Singing for the Tone Deaf". The first thing we learnt is that there's no such thing as "tone deaf", apart from in a handful of medical cases. We've all got voices that we can learn how to use, just as we can learn how to play an instrument. Some people will find it easier than others, and I am finding it quite difficult. But that doesn't mean to say it's impossible, and I certainly don't believe that it is. So if you want to learn, find a teacher who is willing to teach you and go for it!
QUOTE(skylark @ Jun 25 2007, 10:03 PM)

I thought I'd update this thread cos I've just had a bit of revelation

As I was driving back home from my weekend away, I was running through in my head all the sheet music I'd bought, and I started singing one of the items - "I could have danced all night" from My Fair Lady. Since I last posted here, the group lessons have stopped and I've been having individual singing lessons with the same teacher. So I tried to sing it as I've been taught, using my pelvic muscles for support. And it worked! When I got to the bit at the end - "I could have danced, danced, danced, all night" - I gave myself a kick for each "danced" and for "all night" and I could reach the notes!!! So then I tried singing it as I would have sung it before having lessons, and it was so different. I've still got a long long way to go, but I feel as if I've made some progress at last
And if there's anybody reading this who still thinks they can't sing - yes you can, you really can if you have lessons!!!
All I've done so far is learn how to support my voice with my breathing and even that little bit of knowledge has made a big difference. So if anyone really wants to learn how to sing but thinks they can't, get a teacher and go for it! 