QUOTE(ad_libitum @ Sep 29 2007, 12:07 AM)

It's the same mentality that means the child who comes first in sportsday gets the same prize and recognition as the one who finishes last
A pupil told me about his sportsday and I asked if he won anything, to which he looked confused and said "everyone wins!"... That doesn't make any sense! If you are running a race how can you ignore the fact that
someone must have crossed the finish line first?! Or did they all have to run at the same speed perhaps?

I really ought not to get started on this because it's something I really do climb on my soapbox about... but now I've started I'd better finish.
Changes in society in the last decade or so have created a 'non-failure' system, not just in exams, but anything supposedly competitive in general, particularly when it comes to the children in schools. They start growing up with the view (be it correct or otherwise) that they are a success in everything. None of us can be successful at everything, we all have strengths and weaknesses. Mine at school was sports day, in particular. At only 5 feet tall now, and clearly a lot less than that at school I hadn't really got a lot going for me on sports day, especially when it came to running. There was first, second and third place only in the races and being one of the tinniest pupils, I generally came last in every single one. Yes it was disappointing, but, it taught me to be a good loser and to realise that we all have strengths and weakenesses. It also gave me direction in life and told me in what areas I was 'flogging a dead' horse and where I was clearly streets ahead of the rest. These days, with the 'everyone is a winner at everything' idea, we risk giving people false information about their aptitudes.
With reference to ABRSM exam success being undervalued in the school system, I believe music is undervalued not just in schools, but also in society. Sadly, a large proprtion of the UK native population is not very cultured when it comes to music, particularly genres outside those of mainstream pop/rock. We are however renowned for producing man-made girl and boy bands.