QUOTE(bobziekins @ Sep 4 2009, 12:10 AM)

Boys are... nice
It's so weird. At primary school you so much as smile at a boy, and there's a chorus of "OMG!!!!!!!" then for days, weeks, months afterwards it's "You FANCY him!!!!" So after that I've sort of avoided them, because in my mind it has been boy= boyfriend, which doesn't interest me just yet.
Now at drama, girls are friends with boys. Hmmmm, strange. I still see boys from my primary school strutting around town in trackies and stupid hats, going "Awwwwwwight" then spitting at you. Nice, eh? So boys have always been classed as jerks by me, really. At drama, they've started to actually talk to me, and are there as a friend option, it's so wwweeiiirdddd. The girls are mostly catty, and laugh, and patronise, and talk to you and ask you questions, then show you that they care zilch about you because the next week they ask the very same questions. But the boys don't seem to do things to be spiteful, if they don't want to talk to you, they are polite, but generally ignore you. If they do, they listen, and manage to actually retain information.
I don't know. It's doing my head in.
Quite a few of my friends are boys, but yes, I also get people saying 'You fancy him!' whenever I talk to or smile at one of them. It's
really annoying.

I've found the same about girls and boys. I mean, girls are horrible by acting faux-nice (i.e. saying 'Oh I think your new bag is
lovely' when their tone of voice and facial expression imply the exact opposite.

Boys, yes, are generally polite and seem interested when they talk to you.