QUOTE(notmusimum @ Nov 4 2008, 08:23 PM)

I'm only a parent but having been in a similar situation I don't think this is helpful. If a student works hard and everything goes as well as expected in the exam and the teacher thinks they were distinction standard then questions will be asked.
At the time it happened to daughter it was very confusing. As everyone got lower than expected marks in the special visit it was identified as a harsh examiner. Looking back I expect other things came into play too. Firstly I think sometimes teachers don't quite streach students enough in the sense of asking for more. I don't think it's deliberate or in any way intentional and sometimes potential will be recognised that doesn't transfer itself into skill. I'm not implying bad preperation. Hope this makes sense?
At the time of Grade 5 Oboe I asked similar questions to the OP's friend, so did her teacher. When daughter got a similar mark for Grade 5 Sax we were very happy, it was a bonus. The merit was never an issue but the length of time she had been playing the pieces, in comparism, and all the hard work that had gone into them was. In the end I think we all learnt something from the whole thing parent, child and teacher.
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'Streatching' students isn't easy sometimes for pupil or teacher. pupil thinks they played reasonably well and got some praise for it, but the next thing the teacher says is 'now do this...' or the teacher doesn't comment on the part pupil thought went badly but looks at other parts which takes them by surprize. I always have it (especially the second one), and I don't dislike it, it's just sometimes depressing realizing that a piece is never going to be 'perfect', just 'good enough for ...'. I don't know, but I think the teacher wants the pupil to enjoy playing and think asking for more might make them feel like a bad player and that they'll never be good at playing?
I think that yes, if it goes well and you are confident that you didn't mess anything up too badly, you can expect a good mark. I think it totaly depends on the examiner you have. If the examiner is looking for a technically perfect performance but musicality isn't the most important thing to them, playing musicaly but with a few minor slips can get worse marks than expected. Of course, it can happen the other way round. I want a distinction and aim for it, but I NEVER expect it.
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but the length of time she had been playing the pieces, in comparism, and all the hard work that had gone into them was.
I think it's been said in the forum and certainly by my son's piano teacher that spending too much time on a piece can be counter productive. The pupil is bored and just wants to get it over with, so it will not have the 'freshness' that it should.
Definatly. Idealy, if you think the piece is ready for the exam that's a long way off, don't play it too much untill a few days before.
Actualy, thinking about this, there are always a bit to work on in any piece I think. Well, as long as you're confident it's good enough for the exam, it's best not to overplay the pieces. Work on some other pieces.