QUOTE(rosfrog @ Dec 17 2008, 02:26 AM)

I don't wish to rain on her parade, but as a former professional phonologist, the rolled R is a genetic thing - you can either do it or you can't. If she can't do it, she won't be able to learn. Mind you, many scots can't do it, so she won't sound too daft if she sings without it.
Not that I doubt your word, but is a "flip-the-R-gene" actually scientifically proven??? I know of many people who claim that it is a genetic thing, but so far, nobody could actually show me a valid study or something, maybe I'll be lucky this time?

I know that the ability to
roll (up) your tongue (like in this picture:
roll up your tongue ) is genetic, but that has nothing to do with singing or speaking and doesn't en- or disable you to flip or roll Rs either ...
Whole generations of speech-therapists actually spend their time teaching apical and uvular Rs (is that what they are scientifically called in English? Too lazy to look it up

), I don't think they would do this if it was hopeless. I believe it is the same with a lisp - it actually can be cured with enough practice and knowing exactly what goes on in your mouth and where the tongue has to be. And the basic ability of the tongue as an articulator is not different in different people as far as I know, it's very often laziness or wrong tuition and only rarely a physiological thing (and even if it is, that's not necessarily genetic). Most speech impediments can be resolved with enough work, but it IS work of course. I would even call it drill, and that's something many people are not prepared to go through, because they get bored or frustrated.
Also, my professional experience tells me something different. Over the last years, I had quite a few students who even have been given up as "hopeless non-R-flippers" by other teachers, and there wasn't
a single one of them who wasn't able to finally learn it - they can
all do it now. Maybe that's just sheer coincidence, and non of them actually had a "genetic malfunction".
As for the flipped/rolled R: If you press the tip of your tongue very firmly against your hard palate right behind your upper front teeth and then say "trr" or "drr" with quite a bit of airflow and without actually moving your tongue away, it will eventually start to flip. At the start, it will be erratic and not for very long, but it develops. There are other exercises, and many of them are actually best practised with a mirror.
I was able to teach most of these "hopeless cases" in a couple of hours (sorry if that sounds like a bit of self-praise, I don't mean it like this, I just object to the idea of giving up on something too quickly because it is supposedly "genetic", which I still don't believe). There was only one who really took several months, but even he finally learned it ...
Sorry for hijacking the thread ...