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lottie
The details don't really matter.... I just need a decision and I'm a Libra and a procrastinator.

Oh, go on... just tick a box.... you know you want to tongue.gif laugh.gif
SueHM
Go for it! (I'm an Aries...)
Val_alto
QUOTE(lottie @ Feb 4 2009, 05:07 PM) *

The details don't really matter.... I just need a decision and I'm a Libra and a procrastinator.

Oh, go on... just tick a box.... you know you want to tongue.gif laugh.gif



Will you tell us the details after you have done / not done it?

Val
Mad Tom
I find it hard to believe that anyone is voting without knowing what the question is.
Alicia Ocean
When I can't decide I flip a coin and then see how I feel about the outcome.
karslima
Go for it and take full responsibility (I'm a Leo)
Holz Gedeckt
QUOTE(AlisonS @ Feb 4 2009, 06:08 PM) *

Go for it and take full responsibility (I'm a Leo)

Same here from another Leo! wink.gif
maledictis
QUOTE(Mad Tom @ Feb 4 2009, 05:53 PM) *

I find it hard to believe that anyone is voting without knowing what the question is.

That's because you are too sensible for your own good tongue.gif
Cadence
Take a chance and experience it!
BerkshireMum
QUOTE(Mad Tom @ Feb 4 2009, 05:53 PM) *

I find it hard to believe that anyone is voting without knowing what the question is.

I'm with Mad Tom on this. I suspect you're bound to end up with a "Yes" vote, because people who vote without knowing what it's about are more extrovert and optimistic! biggrin.gif
hello_cello
They would vote 'yes' because the question is secretly 'Is HC awesome?'
sarah123
QUOTE(hello_cello @ Feb 4 2009, 10:15 PM) *

They would vote 'yes' because the question is secretly 'Is HC awesome?'


*wishes she could change her vote*
BerkshireMum
QUOTE(hello_cello @ Feb 4 2009, 10:15 PM) *

They would vote 'yes' because the question is secretly 'Is HC awesome?'

I see being made into a snowman hasn't reduced your bumptiousness one bit!!! biggrin.gif
ffliwt
Is it 'shall i buy this cello i found for £65 on ebay' laugh.gif tongue.gif
Never know
Might turn out as nice as Agapanthus smile.gif
hello_cello
QUOTE(BerkshireMum @ Feb 4 2009, 10:17 PM) *

QUOTE(hello_cello @ Feb 4 2009, 10:15 PM) *

They would vote 'yes' because the question is secretly 'Is HC awesome?'

I see being made into a snowman hasn't reduced your bumptiousness one bit!!! biggrin.gif



I was made into a snowman blink.gif
Susie
Just to balance out the other, more forceful Leos, I say No! (I'm a cautious Leo)

Hmmm, looks like I'm the only cautious one round here, except for Mad Tom who cautiously didn't vote!
BerkshireMum
QUOTE(hello_cello @ Feb 4 2009, 10:18 PM) *

I was made into a snowman blink.gif

Look at the "Who wants a snowball fight" thread. You mean you didn't realise you'd been out in the snow all night?!
hello_cello
Oh dear.
Id better go look at that!
mel2
Another Aries here who says yes.

However if you find that you flip the coin more than once to get the right answer, then that is a fair indication of what you really want to do.

ohmy.gif

Mind you, if you were wondering whether you should boil the budgie and run away with the milkman I should say a definite no!
SueHM
Harrumph, cyber-bully, moi?
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hello_cello
laugh.gif nice picture tongue.gif
SueHM
Let that be a warning to you young man! Don't mess with the riff-raff! laugh.gif
hello_cello
Did that ermmm, lovely lady with the rolling pin do that to me cello?
SueHM
You catch on quick H_C!
Crotchetymum
Um - sorry, can't vote - another Libra here. (Of course, if I've had a couple of glasses of wine I can make very important decisions instantly biggrin.gif)
lottie
QUOTE(ffliwt @ Feb 4 2009, 10:17 PM) *

Is it 'shall i buy this cello i found for £65 on ebay' laugh.gif tongue.gif
Never know
Might turn out as nice as Agapanthus smile.gif



Weeeelllll, yes it's something like that...

I genuinely can't decide!

I've got the chance of buying one of Yitamusic's T20 violins which are the top of their range and I believe used by some professionals. I could buy it for about half the price they normally cost.

Thing is.... I've already got a violin and don't really need another one... and I can only raise the money from my savings for next year's Uni fees.. which I might be able to replace in time so it's not the end of the world.

And it might be nicer than the one I've got, Martha is considered quite 'big'. And it's the opportunity of a real bargain??

My teacher and OH say no.... HEEELLLLLPPPPPP!!!

QUOTE(Crotchetymum @ Feb 4 2009, 11:33 PM) *

Um - sorry, can't vote - another Libra here. (Of course, if I've had a couple of glasses of wine I can make very important decisions instantly biggrin.gif)



Pass the bottle!!! laugh.gif
SueHM
Given the facts, I would now say no - sorry, probably not what you want to hear. Will it seem like such a bargain next year when you are struggling to pay Uni fees?
Dulciana
QUOTE(maledictis @ Feb 4 2009, 07:13 PM) *

QUOTE(Mad Tom @ Feb 4 2009, 05:53 PM) *

I find it hard to believe that anyone is voting without knowing what the question is.

That's because you are too sensible for your own good tongue.gif

The reason we're on the second page of replies, though, is that we were all taken by the 'all you clever people' bit. rolleyes.gif
missypiano
QUOTE(Dulciana @ Feb 5 2009, 12:14 PM) *

The reason we're on the second page of replies, though, is that we were all taken by the 'all you clever people' bit. rolleyes.gif

rofl.gif

Seriously though...I'd have to agree with SueHM. It might sound very tempting right now but you do not have the money (the one you have is for uni and you have an instrument to play. Not the one you wish you had but nethertheless one that enables you to play at the moment. I'd wait until the time was right...there will be other opportunities in the future...
Babybird2
tongue.gif How much is it?
petrat
Save your money for your course fees and the new art studio Lottie, and don't breathe a word of your thoughts of infidelity to poor Martha or she will never play well for you again, and she will lie crying in her case.
ffliwt
I agree with Petrat! Don't tell poor Martha!

Oh no i wish i never voted 'yes' now laugh.gif

You love Martha and i think she's nicer than the yitamusic ones by far smile.gif + she's a lot more special!
elisabeth_rb
I put 'no' as I have an inkling as to what it is you're deliberating over (without reading the whole thread) and it's no good getting others to make a decision you know is impractical for you!!! wacko.gif Forget it for now and enjoy what you have. You can have a really nice instrument later on when you can afford it and it won't make you feel bad. Then you won't find yourself in a bad dilemma as money and so on won't be an issue. Be sensible, I doubt quite severely that you'll regret it. smile.gif Being rash and buying the violin when you know you don't need and can't afford it (can you be SURE you can replace the funds? It's a very dicky economic climate right now!), well, that I think you will regret. sad.gif

PS Star signs are a cop-out! Personal traits etc are determined at the moment of conception, not birth - (science bit!!), so stuff that for an excuse!!! laugh.gif Take responsibility and remember, lots of people vote 'yes' because it won't impact on them one little bit! You, on the other hand, have to take the rap if the decision is wrong. unsure.gif
rosfrog
NOOOOOOOO! Hamish is outraged at the idea.

Seriously, they T20 is not going to be better than a handmade instrument. They're great - way better than the stentors, the gligas etc - but they're still factory made. With an expensive set up, you'll get something useable as a second violin by a pro - but that will add extra cost and you'll still probably play Martha more.

You love Martha - stick with her.
lottie
YES!!! You're all right!!!

And I knew all that in the first place but a sweep of doubt clouded the air!

How could I possibly betray the delightful, beautiful, enchanting and VERY Scottish Martha!!!

Never... Martha, come back to me darling, unpack your spotted hanky and stay... you're my love, my one and only and always will be...

*stands on the edge of a cliff in a thunderstorm, wrist on brow, whilst embracing her violin...*
elisabeth_rb
Oh good for you! Well done, Lottie! party1.gif
Miss Ross
Pierre was going to be very upset if Martha was discarded...

But as it is, he is now a Very Happy Violin! biggrin.gif
Crotchetymum
Good call, Lottie. Enjoy playing Martha smile.gif
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