QUOTE(bourdon16 @ Feb 11 2009, 05:08 PM)

QUOTE(Scaramouche @ Feb 11 2009, 04:39 PM)

They said they prefer to do things from just me literally writing fun tunes out like A A A A G G F G B etc
This is the bit which 'worries' me. Presumably their parents are paying (or contributing) for lessons and expect them to be taught properly. It sounds as if these pupils are hoping to be able to tell you what to do. Have none of it!
Have you tried to get them to understand that staff notation will tell them a lot more than the note names? As they progress they will need to be able to read things like articulation, phrasing, rythym, dynamics and so on, so can you persuade them that learning it now will help them later on?
From what you say about them 'going to pot' when they pick up their flutes, it sounds like they have learnt fingerings rather than notes - this will cause them all kinds of problems later once they start using different fingerings for the same note e.g. long and short Bb, long and short C# etc.
Violincjj's worksheets sound good.
Do they actually want to learn the instrument?