QUOTE(Aquarelle @ Feb 13 2009, 10:46 AM)

In France I work in a Catholic school and feel that as a Christian I should take part in the Christian celebrations with the staff and pupils of the school. They all automatically assumed I was a Catholic. However at first I went to mass without taking communion. This was noticed by some of the children.I then approached the head teacher who at that time was someone who had started training for the priesthood and then given up to become a teacher. He said he could see no reason why I should not communicate alongside my Christian colleagues. I then spoke to another English friend, an Anglican who I knew took communion in our local church. She said rather evasively that she thought the parish priest would be "understanding".
I didn't feel I could approach this particular parish priest. However, now, when I go to mass I do participate in the communion. No one has ever challenged this though I am sure most people now know that I was not brought up as a Catholic.
I respect the Catholic tradition and regard myself as a sort of "guest" at communion. I expect one day I will discuss this with our new parish priest but am not ready to do so yet.
I feel this is a delicate question and I think it is understandable that different Christian traditions have different customs.
I don't suppose it ever occurred to you there might be a reason he had left training for the Priesthood? He was wrong and anyone who tells you otherwise is also wrong. You should not be receiving Communion in a Catholic Church unless you are a Catholic. And you are showing a complete lack of respect for the Catholic Church and the Real Presence of the Eucharist if you continue to do so.
I'm sorry you have been told the wrong thing in the past, unfortunately France has had problems with liberal and other destructive tendencies among many in the Catholic Church. The fact you have not spoken to the Priest about this suggests to me that you are not entirely comfortable with it yourself, you should speak to the Priest about it, alternatively look up the Church's position on it independently.
It's not a delicate question at all. It's really simple the Church is crystal clear about it, if you claim to respect the Catholic tradition then you will not continue to violate it by receiving Communion, it manifests a unity which unfortunately does not presently exist.
QUOTE(all ears @ Feb 13 2009, 01:44 PM)

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what you bind on Earth shall be considered bound in Heaven and what you loose on Earth shall be considered loose in Heaven
I could kiss you! You quoted exactly what I hoped you might quote! Keep reading, but read more! Jesus is not giving a command right here, but an explanation of a privilege - one that depends on certain conditions...
By the way, the words interpreted here as future tense are in fact future perfect - "what you bind here will be the things that
have been bound in heaven". That is just a matter of Greek grammar.
Yes, Paul urges self-reflection...and this is what you will hear in many protestant churches (the original question was about protestant churches). Don't you think Paul refrains from judgement because Jesus himself already said that judgement was not his purpose, and that in any case bad actions carry their judgement in themselves?
Running onto a football pitch? But we don't go to church to play footy or even to talk about the rules or our favourite clubs - every Christian goes to church to worship, commune with, and act with God.
Rules have their place, and the people who make them do so with every good intention, but let us remember our first priority - as the teacher of the law admitted after Jesus summarized the commandments, refusing to say that one was more important than another: "To love him with all your heart, with all your understanding and with all your strength, and to love your neighbor as yourself is more important than all burnt offerings and sacrifices."
Blah, blah, blah.. yep I'm sure that's the nonsense they've been feeding you about why Catholics have it wrong, and why in fact the thoughts of Luther/Calvin/<insert heretic of choice> about what God wanted/the way the Church should be run etc was all right whereas the Catholic Church is all wrong. If you're going to try to overturn 2000 years of Christian tradition you're going to have to do an awful lot better than that.
Have you never read St Paul? I mean he does make quite a few 'judgments' in case you're not aware of it.
Yet still when you are at an away game you respect the rules of that stadium? You respect the rules of the game. It is a public act, but when you're a visitor you don't just do what you want or necessarily what you would normally do at home, especially if there are rules against it. If you are going to respect the rules in such trivial things as that then you should also respect the rules on matters of faith, especially when it comes to dealing with other faiths.
I'm not sure what version of the Bible you've been reading. KJV Matthew 36-38:
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Master, which is the great commandment in the law? Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment.
The first is to love the Lord thy God, he mentions the second as being to love thy neighbour stating in Matt. 40 "On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.". In the Catholic Church we understand it is not loving to admit people to Communion when they do not realise the reality of the Real Presence and do not accept the totality of the Church's teaching, nor when it is very doubtful for anyone who may not avail themselves of the absolution available to be in the state of Grace suitable for reception of Communion. The Church's rules on the reception of Holy Communion are based on what Our Lord calls the two greatest of the 10 Commandments.