QUOTE(Vivacia @ Apr 7 2009, 08:20 PM)

Hi my daughter is taking her grade 2 cello this summer and we are a little stuck with the oral.
She has a nice voice when she uses it but she just won’t sing and when asked to sing something back its all over the place. We have used and oral cd in the past but daughter is reluctant to use it, she doesn’t even sing to the radio or any music cds, any advice welcome.
This is exactly the problem we had/have.
I can tell you what we have tried and what worked and what didn't.
We got the ABRSM book and CDs and used that. We used Hofnotes. I arranged singing lessons with a very patient and very good teacher with the express instruction to get her through her aural.
I spent hours struggling to play the same notes and rhythm twice without rehersal so that I could play examples for her to sing to.
I bought the Paul Harris aural books and the better ear books and CDs.
Lastly her excellent sax teacher decided that aural wasn't going to beat her and she has done hours of aural with my daughter.
So what do I think helped.
I really do think the singing lessons made a big difference. She started them exactly a year ago when she couldn't sing in tune. Within a few weeks she was singing in tune. Unfortunately none of us could hear her so much of our efforts in the last year have been focused on getting her to sing louder.
The other thing that has really helped has been the work the sax teacher has put in. She has been creative, persistent, caring and encouraging. In recent weeks she has taken my daughter for 2 hours a week. A 1 hour sax lesson and an hour of aural.
Hopefully you are not facing quite such a mountain as we have been dealing with. Getting her to sing along to the radio and cds would be a good start point. Does anyone in the family sing? If not then is someone willing to lead the way. Is there a choir in school, will she join.
Singing lessons have been well worth it for us.
We've done two grade 5s now and I can tell you that the aural does not get any easier. So getting a good start now is the best thing to do.
Good luck
Dora