QUOTE(Clw92 @ Aug 9 2009, 01:31 PM)

So do you mean if you dont have the time or the money, you should just quit singing? (....) Im 17, so getting money for lessons is a little problem. I really think this sucks, cause a really want to be able to sing better. I have been playing guitar for ages and i write my own song, so i feel like this is necesarry and singing is one of my greates passions.
No, of course not. I know there are ways however to make things happen if you are commited enough, because I've done it myself. It's just how I feel about "not having time or money", when the real problems are often just different priorities. That's completely legitimate, but there is no progress without effort - without effort, you'll never get anywhere. I don't know your personal circumstances of course, so please don't take this personally.
I didn't come from a wealthy family, money was always short. I gave language lessons/support to other students from the age of 14 to finance my violin lessons at that time. I worked as a papergirl, I worked in a shop, later on in a callcentre. I know it's not easy, but it's possible. If you really want something, you will do everything to make it possible - that's all I say.
You might still not be able to afford weekly lessons, but you might also want to reconsider what is really important to you, what your current spending habits are and where you could save money. When I had the choice between a new pair of jeans or a music lesson, I didn't have to think for a second where the money would go. If I had to make a choice between meeting friends or going to a lesson/practising, I would most of the time pick the lesson/practise - not that I say it's always the best choice, but that's how I felt at that time.