Thanks all for your kind response.
After seeing that many responses to my posts, especially the one about getting a teacher, I decided to drop in quickly to clarify the teacher thingy.
As some of you have already recognized, I live in Germany. However, we don't have something similar like the ABRSM exams (or any other music exam for that matter). Thus, you either learn theory in school (which you don't) or you don't learn it at all - ESPECIALLY when one is already adult. The German education system sucks! Have you seen the Pisa Study? (I think I have to hide in a mouse hole - it's really a shame).
It took me nearly forever to find a flute teacher. And I live in Munich. One should think, someone in a city that large is interested in playing the flute. But I don't know where they found their teachers. There was only one in the phone book when I looked last time and that guy is a complete mess! I was with him for five years and - I found that out recently - learned nearly nothing at all. I was with my new teacher for half a year and catapulted from grade "beyond evil" to grade 6! And "Volkshochschule" (kind of a public school for adults interested in studying certain subjects) is such a low standard, I wonder sometimes how they even get that far as they do!
So, unless you study with an private instrumental teacher when you are a young child, you will always have problems with the theory. That's the only place were you actually can learn it.
So.
Now, that leaves me, as an adult with my ABRSM Theory book, the Practice Book and the internet.
The really mad thing is that I have to learn the musical term - in English and than I have to translate it in German. So I don't learn one term which my mind can store easily, but two terms which have to built the bridge to my German understanding. I don't complain. I like the English language and I am proud how well I have gotten in speaking and comprehending it. So, sometimes, I might get confused with a term, even when I already have learned it in Grade 1 or 2. Sometimes, it's harder to make the "connection".
My teacher is really, really good. She was with Jean-Pierre Rampal, Aurel Nicolet and many other glorious flutists. She teached masterclasses herself. I still think its a wonder I found her. But she really is really really expensive. I cannot even afford once a week, but only each fortnight. And sometimes I have to give a rib to even scratch up that sum. So, naturally, I work with her on my playing abilities, and only make short notes on theoretical issues.
So, I am doing theory on my own. With my books and the help of the many internet pages that cover the subjects I am searching for. I have gotten quite far and I am a good learner. When you get an university education I always say, you don't learn, you just learn how to learn.
I don't mind learning stuff beyond the current grade 3 level. I am taking grade 4 theory only five months later, so the quicker I get that stuff into my brain as well, the better. But I admit, I currently try to focus a bit more on grade 3. And when I start, I have usually "warming up" problems. Getting into the subject is often not that easy. Especially after a very enjoyable lazy summer!
Have a nice day, I will be back later in the evening.
Yours,
Lemontree
PS: Have to leave now, but there was one book recommendation which I sure will get!
