I'd appreciate the advice of forum members with respect to a dilemma.
A couple of years ago, I decided to go back to playing music and took up the harp. I really enjoy the instrument, but I've become increasingly despondent about my teacher and about my opportunities for playing with others. There aren't a lot of teachers around, so if I wanted to find another, it would involve travelling a considerable distance for lessons and I don't really want to spend the time I have available for music in the car, rather than playing. Even if I weren't frustrated with the teacher, I'd still be facing a situation where my progress only seems to lead to playing by myself. I enjoy that, but yearn for more. (One, though only one, of the obstacles to playing with others is that I don't have a car big enough to haul my pedal harp around in and don't want to start driving a petrol-guzzler just for the sake of the harp.)
So I've thought of discontinuing harp lessons (though continuing to play on my own) and taking up another instrument, where I'd have more choice of teachers and could perhaps work towards being able to play chamber music with others. The obvious option would be a bowed string instrument; I'd probably go for viola. I feel apprehensive about this: I had an unproductive year on the violin as a child. I foundered at least in part because I never grasped the importance of practice and my parents were much too bohemian to force a child to do anything. Even though I know my rotten violin playing was certainly related to never practising, I feel nervous at the prospect of going back to a bowed string instrument. I also wonder how long it would take me to get to the point where I could play with others.
Does anyone have any thoughts about this situation? Any parallel experiences?
