QUOTE(SueHM @ Nov 9 2009, 02:29 PM)

Very few people can't manage to pitch a note with a bit of training and persistence. Good tips that I have picked up on the forum include getting them to put their finger in one ear - helps them to hear their own voice better. Ask them to make silly noises like sirens and growling etc to get them used to making high and low sounds with their voices. Sing with them - it is easier to match another voice than an instrument. Get them to sing a steady pitch, then try to match it on the piano (rather than the opposite way round, getting them to match a pitch you play) then alternate them singing and you playing. A few sessions of these sorts of activity you can usually get most people to at least approximately match a pitch and sing a few notes. Persistence and confidence that they will get there is the key.
The 'not fair' argument can so easily be used the other way round - is it fair for candidates who can't manage the tests to get a distinction?
I agree, there are few people who really can't sing enough in tune for exam aural, especially if it is part of an on-going musical training rather than a quick few weeks before the exam for exam purposes only, and nothing inbetween.
I'm pretty sure for some of the singing tests it says 'to sing or play'?
Re: breaking voices on boys, I went to a talk by an AB examiner and he said to whistle instead is fine but won't neccessarily get full marks, but obviously would be better if the boy can only sing one or two random notes that day!