Rubinstein,
i hope you don't tell potential parents/clients that you dont' have much experience - only 4 years. Do give them impression/attitude that you may be a fresh grad out of University but @ the same time have been also teaching on the side piano lessons. Tell them "I have 4 years' experience teaching piano while i studied @ college majoring in music" and i think it helps when you differentiate yourself from regular - common pianists they find on ads. Anyway, i am not a teacher myself but i do live in hk. You prolly already know of these sources, but thought you may want to take a look just in case u do not know of these tutoring sites.
http://www.tutorcentre.com/default.aspand
http://www.go2tutor.com/i hope these two very 'local' and common sites should help you. another one is:
http://www.smart-tutor.com/this is more for just regular subject tutoring jobs. But occasionally they do look for music teachers. At least you can use these sites to talk to these potential bargaining parents ..meaning that your price is really not that high compared to these sites.
You have to make them understand at the same time you are a U grad, LRSM cert, and not just a plain Grade 8 pianist and that visiting homes takes up time and transportation fee as well. I am doing Grade 8 and i pay my teacher (w/ lots of experience) $1800 for 4 lessons/ one hour. Most sites i see pay around $360/4 lessons/ half hour for only beginner levels - zero knowledge in piano.
I'm totally on your side cuz i do part time tutoring as a job. And parents nowadays in hk don't respect 'tutors' so to speak. I've seen some really horrible rates..around $60/hour (not piano lessons) and the location is like in Northern district in the New Terrirtories..personally i dont' know how any student or already a teacher can make jobs like this. I never take such rates...my rate is at least 150/hour b/c i speak fluent American english and overseas Grad and have experience in teaching what i teach and can handel kids that need special attention. And i still think $150 is very low b/c of the type of degree I hold and that i am a responsible teacher as compared to just students in secondary or University looking for part time money. But i know hk parents will not go for higher so i have to set my price @ 150 and no lower or i dont' take jobs. So yes most parents think i charge high, but you have to prove to them - and perhaps give them a first free consultation (20 min ) lesson will be a start, invite these parents to sit in. Show them how you work with their child, the materials you teach, what it means to learn piano/take piano lessons. Most of this includes packaging and marketing yourself, how you set yourself aside from other traditional teaching methods.
B/c i'm taking it as, if parents want to find private piano teachers for their kids, the attitude of taking up piano is different from parents who just enroll their children to hk piano/music studios. I'm not saying this applies to all parents who have their children take lessons @ studios. But i can't deny the truth that there is a great significant difference b/w those who take private lessons @ home and those who just take weekly lessons @ a studio (the attitude towards learning).
And for your case, this dad definitely is looking for just a teacher that is 'cheap' to pay and prolly is a picky one. You won't see him going after APA teachers in hk. So just wait a bit...let him change teachers then..you need to show him (meaning other parents as well) where you stand. Your job is a profession, not just some side job making fast money. If you treat your profession seriously and demand high standards from your students, parents would acknowledge the fact that they have gotten themselves a good, demanding teacher that is worth the high price. So my advice is, i dont' think there is a need to bargain for this parent..let him go. If you already have other students, word of mouth will prolly help you gain other students.
I dont' know how usually teachers set their prices b/c i und most piano teachers travel to homes and may set prices differently depending on gas, or transportation fee, and how far student lives away teacher's home. But as a fresh grad and relatively new teacher, i dont' think your price is outrageously high. Of course you may have to start a lil low price to earn up students and spread your reputation..but at this point (with this dad) i dont' think you need to lower your rate b/c you already did once...
sometimes with these type of parents/clients..is all about not spoiling them. You have to stand on your grounds and make yourself known for what you are worth. dont' be afraid of losing a student.
i hope it all works out for you soon