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recent tip that I've found to work, and means I'm finally learning how to play pp in the higher reaches of the flute and still have some sort of tone (I think, it can be hard to tell with one's own playing) is using the shape of your mouth cavity to influence the volume, rather than relying only on airspeed etc. So, you mouth is in the shape you use for big FAT sounds when you want to be louder (eg AWW) and little quiet sounds when you're playing pp (ie, ee or oo... oo seems to me to produce a nicer sound, ee is kind thin). I got that from Jen Cluff's site
http://www3.telus.net/Garry_McKevitt/index.htm I think, well I certainly first heard about it from Jen! and she learned it from a book called The Physical Flute by Fiona Wilkinson. I'm not exactly a world class flautist, and I'm new to technique really, but I have found it helpful. I'm not that great at ff at all, and have always been a bit rubbish at going anywhere high without being really loud, but I've been experimenting with oo for quiet bits in the Prelude from Rutter's Suite Antique, and although I've far from perfected it, there is a bit around bar 28 - 32 as an example which is marked mp and is semibreves and minims from D3 to A3, there is a little crescendo but I've always been like, how on EARTH am I supposed to play that high, quietly, sweetly, and not die from having too little breath?? and I have been surprised at how much the mouth shapes thing works with being quiet and having tone, and also is helping me use my air more efficiently. And it's just generally a pretty quiet piece and all high, and for the first time I'm actually able to do something with the dynamics and not just play everything louder than I know full well it should be!
um. sorry that got kinda long. but yeah, we're right in the range where sounds travel really easily. especially in the middle n top register....
Tamsin: I struggle with forte as well, except in the top register where I used to (and sometimes still do) just end up blowing my guts out. Think with me it's partly a confidence thing. What have you found helps with playing loud?
At least you can play pppp.... that's quite an achievement for a flautist. You need to play lots of really delicate pieces which show it off!