QUOTE(Barry Williams @ Jan 3 2011, 09:14 PM)

"...but then the minister started bringing CD's to play instead, so our noses were put out of joint and we didn't bother."
I find it very difficult to contain my anger when I read of this sort of thing. Nothing, absolutely nothing, is so calculated to make parish musicians feel unwanted and unvalued.
It is the height of bad manners and utterly unprofessional. I am shocked and disappointed that this should go on anywhere.
Barry Williams
Sometimes I feel the clergy need to be reminded of the vocation they have chosen, and what their responsibilities are. These should not extend to insulting and generally brassing off all those individuals who support and run the church, raise funds, and ultimately help pay clergy stipends.
Sadly, it seems to me that the whole church has become very 'clergy centred' over the past two decades or so. We might still sing 'The Servant King' on occasions, but the whole idea of the clergy serving the church and community is now long lost, (well it is in this parish anyway). Instead, the clergy seem to treat their PCC and congregations with contempt, and see their role as taking services and nothing else. Even arranging a baptism has become nigh on impossible around here, as the clergy are insisting that baptisms must only be held during main Sunday services, and then only one a month at best. The result is that some families have started booking baptisms even before their children are born, rather than waiting several years afterwards.
One of our clergy recently took a three month sabbatical, and in his place we had a retired Priest, who was very much old school. What a refreshing change. Not only did we use the 'proper' words to everything, but nothing was too much trouble for him. Furthermore, he and his wife were very happy to spend time over coffee after services so they could get to know the regulars.
The visiting Preist also had a very interesting approach to 'The Peace', which effectively meant that it didn't happen!
SB