QUOTE(PianissiMole @ Apr 7 2011, 09:35 PM)

Many of the 'reconditioned' pianos I played were poorly regulated and some not even properly in tune, so very difficult to compare. For some reason, Steinways seemed significantly better in this respect;
Wow - it sounds like you had a lot of fun PianissiMole. I had similar fun wandering all over London for a number of weekends when looking for my digital. On the other hand, I bought my upright almost on a whim. I decided to buy one on a Friday evening, the next day I spent several hours playing all the pianos in a big showroom, and my favourite was delivered a couple of days later. I've been supremely happy with my choice.
With both purchases I found that cost was not much of a guide to my enjoyment of the touch and tone.
I'm renting a piano here in Hungary. This was the only piano that was available to rent, so I didn't have a choice. I didn't much like the touch or the tone - and I thought that it was ugly. However, the digital that the school was renting to me was awful, so I rented the piano despite my concerns. A good piano tuner came and worked on it for a while, and I've now found that I like the touch and tone. This is all a long way of agreeing with PianissiMole that the regulation and tuning in the shop will make a big difference.
Of the grands that I've played, I enjoyed the Fazioli the most. I had unrestricted access to it for a week a few years ago. I loved the way that I was able to emote on it. It sounded wonderful, even when I played the wrong notes. It made me want to practice. I achieved a lot that week, but unfortunately didn't want to play my own piano for about a month afterwards!
My next favourite was my piano teacher's Steinway. It was a best of year Steinway with a very heavy touch. My teacher and her family decamped to the country during each school holiday, and I piano and cat sat for them. It was a real pain to move across London, feed the cat, water the garden etc; but I loved that piano. I would take time off work so that I could spend all day on the piano. It had a beautiful heavy touch, but I understand that can be altered on a Steinway.
I had access to a Steinway in a London church, but found that I really didn't like it. It was fairly old, and I found that I didn't like the depth of the keys - they just didn't go down very far.
There are many pianos here in the Institute, and some are truly awful. They're old and need a lot of work, but the Institute can't afford to keep them in good nic. The one that I like the best is a lovely Yamaha in the concert hall. Interestingly it isn't the one that they use for concerts, so clearly someone else doesn't consider it to be the best.
My local church in London had a Kawai, which I really enjoyed. It wasn't nearly as nice as the Fazioli or Steinway, but I spent many happy hours on it. That said, my piano teacher (with the best of year Steinway) hated it.
In summary, I don't think that you can decide in advance, you just have to play them and see which you like most.
Oops sorry - long post. Have fun.