QUOTE(MNW @ Nov 28 2011, 10:26 PM)

I didn't get the thread closed down! Is this another case of reading between the lines? There is a reason why nothing can be found between the literal lines...
Not at all - don't overreact. I thought that only the thread starter could ask for it to be closed which is why I asked. I won't bother commenting at all in future. Godness, this forum has become so tetchy!
QUOTE(tonedeafmum @ Nov 28 2011, 09:43 PM)

QUOTE(KixMusic @ Nov 28 2011, 09:19 PM)

Off topic - why did you have the thread about your flute playing son closed? There was some very useful advice for all parents in there.

I don't think we're meant to speculate on the fora about why a thread has been closed or deleted - and all the advice is still there to be read if anyone wants to.
It's great that there's so much good advice available here - and I've always been grateful for it but I think it's important to remember that what a lot of parents want quite often is a supportive sounding board for their concerns rather than a prescription from an 'expert'.
All digits still firmly crossed for all of you waiting on the NCO.

Well the only bit I could find in the forum rules related to the thread starter asking why their thread was closed (see below) so I thought it was okay to ask? (There's nothing about a community member asking the thread starter)
Moderation Explanations
Please do not start a new thread asking why your last thread was moved, deleted or closed. If you want to know why, contact a moderator, but please do not ask the community.