QUOTE(snowman909 @ Jun 26 2005, 03:42 PM)
Steve, what I put didn't come out the way i meant it to! My hands hurt because they are really really really small and I often try stretch them out too far which results is my own fault!
I see what you mean. When I say that 'playing the piano isn't supposed to hurt' I do mean it, obviously.

That statement is also partly a reflection of my own desire not to have young (or old, for that matter) players hurt by an activity that is supposed to be enjoyable.
Advanced students with small hands can find a variety of ways round the problem. Some develop such flexible joints and muscles in their hands that they appear to be made of rubber. Others leave out notes or rearrange chords. Others simply choose repertoire that they can play without adaptation; the trouble with this is it leaves them unable to play stuff they might really want to.
Experiment with leaving out the lowest notes of RH chords and the highest of LH chords. It rarely makes a big difference to the sound. 'Spreading' them helps a lot but there are situations where you just don't want a spread chord.
Just don't hurt yourself, okay?
Steve