QUOTE(SomePianist @ Oct 12 2005, 04:28 PM)
QUOTE(AnotherPianist @ Oct 11 2005, 11:03 PM)
I wish I didn't I have shaking hands, feel sick (often am sick ) and I really hate it...
Have you tried hypnosis? I have a good relaxation hypnosis tape which has totally convinced me that I really do "respond well to stressful situations". Might this be worth a try?
Interestingly (well to me anyway), as a side-effect of regular listening to the tape I suddenly stopped biting my nails (at the age of 32)!
this stuff's really come into its own in recent years, and a lot of people swear by it. sublimal messaging CD's are pretty easy to get a hold of and they're certainly worth a shot to see if you can get over your nerves.
also, visual sublimal messaging programs have cropped up to. based on the premise that if you flash up a message for a very short time on screen (100 milliseconds i think) it's not picked up consciously but is registered subconsciously, so bypassing the scrutiny of your conscious mind. there's no effort involved and these programs apparantly screen one message per second, while you're working on your computer. it's the lazy guy's alternative to self-hypnosis. you might want to try it, but keep in mind that i haven't and am guaranteeing nothing