First of all, very well, done embojet

You sound like you had a good experience on the first lesson, and your student sounds like she had fun too, a wonderful start! I hope you two can continue working this well together.
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Um...embojet, I don't want to put a damper on your enthusiasm as obviously the lesson went really well
Yes, it did, so why not leave it there?
Ok, I was going to leave this thread as it seemed to be just getting into another heated argument about Kodaly/non-Kodaly, but Cyrilla, you really do need to start accepting that there are other ways of teaching except yours.
Embojet is obviously miles ahead of many of the teachers I have come across..... she cares about her students enough to go hunting for advice, she knows children well enough to understand that teaching this age group is a whole different kettle of fish, and by all accounts she had a good start to her first lesson with her student.
So WHY do you feel the need to instantly say that she is obviously, in your opinion, doing it wrong?
I have now gone beyond the idea that I have to justify my teaching methods on this forum...quite frankly I can see my own students doing well and that is enough for me to know that it is working. But I do have the foresight to know and understand that there are as many different ways of teaching as there are teachers, and just because embojet doesn't teach your way does NOT mean that she is doing it wrong by any stretch of the imagination.
If embojet's new student cannot yet clap a steady pulse, I'm sure she will teach her how to,. as I do with all my students, and as do the thousands upon thousands of teachers out there who teach note reading and playing alongside listening and understanding.
Alternative ways of teaching a student listening.....
1) Playing alongside a student
2) Demonstrating for a student
3) Duetting with a student
4) Using one of the many aural training books available for young children, which they all, without exception, both love and learn from.
5) Encouraging memorisation
6) Encouraging singing
7) Encouraging composition
8) By asking from the moment they set hands on the piano for good tone control..... no child can do that without listening.
9) By getting a student to spot wrong notes by playing the correct version and asking them which note sounded different.... also works with rhythm
10) By NEVER allowing a student to play anything without a good sense of pulse, simply by holding them in by playing, clapping, singing, counting, alongside them while they play, it's amazing how quickly they pick it up.
All of which teach a student to listen WHILE they learn to read and play.
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Conclusion: children who are taught by whatever means to hear and understand music in their head, either through Kodaly training or through a musical parent singing to and with them, are far more likely to play musically when they take up an instrument.
And children who don't, can quickly learn, and end up just as good a musician as children who are.