Good Lord, Mickey, you sound like my 16 year old. The majority of people contributing to this forum are people who can form a coherent argument without resorting to personal insults and can take on board some constructive criticism.
Coping with non-practising bores who make up the numbers?
Posted 12 September 2015 - 19:36
Posted 12 September 2015 - 21:20
I would find the non-practice situation distinctly trickier with the 6-8 age range I must say asI think that parental support for this age is vital. Thinking about it, I don't think I've any non-practicers at the moment, I have a few light practicers (adults) and one erratic practicer (10 year old) - with adults I am happy so long as they engage with the lesson and accept that progress will be slow. The exception I'd say is for beginning students- no practice will mean very little progress- but I have some around the grade 1-3 level who know that they'd get along a lot faster if they devoted more time to piano, but we both enjoy the lessons. They attend for a variety of reasons- for some, piano is the only activity they do that is purely for them, and is a relaxing challenge. However, I've found that young children who don't practice, and therefore don't progress, are likely to get more frustrated and lose interest.
In terms of going slowly and loads of consolidation, it has to be My First Piano Adventures for me- especially as there is also the theory/activity book to do in the lesson. This really has done so much for my teaching of the 5- 7 age range.
I don't have anything to add to the really good repertoire and activity suggestions in this thread. I've been there, in terms of feeling I can't afford to let go of pupils, and I know in the past I've sometimes felt under pressure to carry on with students with whom I should have called it a day for their and my sake. Is there anything else you could do on the marketing front do you think, to increase numbers so that you would feel more secure? I just wonder if you were putting your energies into that whether you'd feel better?
Posted 12 September 2015 - 21:27
Mickey. I do not need to get over myself as I am completely confident that my comments were given with the best of intention and have merit whether you agree with them or not. You obviously disagree, but I would just like you to consider - if your child had lessons from a teacher who was as disengaged as you describe yourself being (from your "bores") would you be happy? I think not.
Posted 12 September 2015 - 23:37
Edited by EdGJ, 13 September 2015 - 10:33 .
Posted 13 September 2015 - 00:18
thanks again to everyone of you that has given material suggestions - I think I have enough to be getting on with that will be new and will help engage.
Posted 13 September 2015 - 10:09
Edited by EdGJ, 13 September 2015 - 10:32 .